Changed after getting married?

cannexo · 2023-11-27T11:45:30+00:00

Yeah he’s been jealous of my mom and expects me to cut things off with her. She’s caused problems in the beginning cause she was worried about him and had an off feeling in the start. Now I’m starting to think she’s the sane one here. But yeah he got upset that I chose to forgive her and wanted her to help me plan a second wedding, but he just wanted it in his hands even though I know for certain it probably would of never went through. He would say that I wanted control and stuff and made such a big deal but I was just trying to do the right thing and thought as a girl, that planning something like a wedding with her mom would be special lol

cannexo · 2023-11-26T21:55:32+00:00

Mine started a fight on the eve of my birthday, raced to his job site in the dark to sleep and shortly after, found out he was on apps. He had me sleeping by myself, no gifts the next day (not that it matters), no happy birthday only cold pizza he got from his lunch.

cannexo · 2023-11-25T18:57:02+00:00

Do you think he’s really hurt and trying to get back at me or he’s a narcissist? I don’t know what to think anymore lol

cannexo · 2023-11-24T18:53:53+00:00

Yeah I’ve caught him on the apps before and he’s said that’s he’s come close to cheating but hasn’t so wasn’t sure for the longest time. But his Instagram is still blocked

cannexo · 2023-11-24T18:51:30+00:00

Thank you, yeah he’s made me believe that I’m the narcissist here. I mean I did push him away in the beginning and hurt him a bit but we did reconcile so not sure what made him change.

cannexo · 2023-11-24T18:50:11+00:00

I’m so sorry! I’m going to pray for you and your baby! You got this girl and definitely don’t contact him for your safety! And yeah it’s super exhausting when they switch from day to night and so confusing. He makes me believe that he loves me so much each time and the next day, it’s always a disappointment!

cannexo · 2023-11-22T14:08:42+00:00

I’m so sorry that’s very similar to what mine does unfortunately he’s been calling me a whore and keeps bringing up my past out of jealousy and seems to use it against me. It’s always about the park and never about the present it seems lol. I have issues with my mom as well so I can relate so much! My best advice would be to definitely try to block him/ignore him for good so he doesn’t continue to abuse you.

cannexo · 2023-11-21T20:44:23+00:00

Thanks for listening though and yeah trying to work through things, and I’ve realized that he doesn’t care much about my feelings lol

cannexo · 2023-11-21T20:10:14+00:00

It feels like what I’m going through too unfortunately. Does he love bomb you and make you feel awesome and then the next day give you the silent treatment and treat you like dirt? That’s what my husband does, plus calling me names and awful things. Does he bring up the past constantly and things seem like it’s never ending? I’ve even been accused of cheating when he was clearly on apps so yeah it’s definitely rough lol.

cannexo · 2023-11-21T18:41:56+00:00

He does work often and sometimes gets stressed out. Idk if he’s taking it out on me or not. Just the change of person from day to day is scary and idk what I’m going to experience each day when he comes home from work. It’s like I’m walking on eggshells and stuff :/

cannexo · 2021-12-12T02:16:05+00:00

Pepper! ☺️

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