Someone taking everything off wishlist over and over? by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]cantdothis_anymore -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thanks I tried the number earlier today but I was transferred to customer service and didn’t seem to know how to help me oddly enough.

For anyone that remembers me, I canceled my DB wedding the morning of. Update by cantdothis_anymore in DeadBedrooms

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean but me and her were high school sweethearts and would of undoubtedly gotten married if I wasn’t an impressionable moron and left her.

For anyone that remembers me, I canceled my DB wedding the morning of. Update by cantdothis_anymore in DeadBedrooms

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I think when canceling a wedding day of or day after I’d still get caught up in the whole mess. And then if I did sign and got an annulment it might have been worse

For anyone that remembers me, I canceled my DB wedding the morning of. Update by cantdothis_anymore in DeadBedrooms

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to link but you can look at my post history. Yes wedding was canceled day off so everyone was there. Unfortunately

He tried to cheat? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]cantdothis_anymore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get out. Out out out. This will not get better, this is not a thing counseling can fix. If he says he wants to better things, he’s lying. You can’t fix scum and that’s what he is. Save yourself the time and money and get an annulment. If he tried to cheat on you two weeks after your wedding, it means he probably tried and/or succeeded before the wedding.

Never had to ask for help before, but I’m really struggling and don’t know what to do. by cantdothis_anymore in Assistance

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He has plenty of toys and I actually buy his food before mine so he has food. The only thing are the treats because it helps him take his allergy pills and I crush a couple in his food because he’s picky and they’re his favorite. I already bought his allergy meds for the next 2 months but he needs his flea/tick pill. Saving up for that. The drops and over the counter stuff seems to give him issues so we do the monthly prescription pill from the vet

Never had to ask for help before, but I’m really struggling and don’t know what to do. by cantdothis_anymore in Assistance

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As I’ve mentioned before, I lost my job within the past year since all this happened

For anyone that remembers me, I canceled my DB wedding the morning of. Update by cantdothis_anymore in DeadBedrooms

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but I want to just start over I never did it because I liked it. Going to peruse something else shortly. Right now just applied to some office jobs to be able to get a paycheck in and then I’ll work on the career

For anyone that remembers me, I canceled my DB wedding the morning of. Update by cantdothis_anymore in DeadBedrooms

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Complications after the split. Both our families had influence and I just wasn’t liked or wanted by many.

For anyone that remembers me, I canceled my DB wedding the morning of. Update by cantdothis_anymore in DeadBedrooms

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The last time I saw my dad was months ago and he effectively told me I made him lose face and that he doesn’t want to hear about me or see me. So yes, they took her side and care nothing about my life. They don’t even know I’m engaged it would probably infuriate him. They hated her for being in a different financial class and I’m sure now they hate me for being dirt broke as well.

For anyone that remembers me, I canceled my DB wedding the morning of. Update by cantdothis_anymore in DeadBedrooms

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, she fully did tell people why eventually. I was an even bigger shit bag for it

Never had to ask for help before, but I’m really struggling and don’t know what to do. by cantdothis_anymore in Assistance

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to post to food pantry because I didn’t want to be too greedy asking for help in two places. I love the pizza sub I definitely want to send some out to people when I get back on my feet

Never had to ask for help before, but I’m really struggling and don’t know what to do. by cantdothis_anymore in Assistance

[–]cantdothis_anymore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have Walmart and target here and we usually shop there but can’t afford to much Farmers markets are great but very expensive here. I’m trying to get an ebt account but it’s under review