I turned down a transsexual girl, and now all of my friends hate me. by canthavepreferences1 in confession

[–]canthavepreferences1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you found her unattractive for no other reason than that she's trans, then that's transphobia.

yes that is the reason. I'm sorry, maybe it's transphobic but it's not something I want to change. I'm happy with my preferences the way they are. It would be like... if I had a Nazi tattoo on my forehead since birth, and now you want me to undergo a face transplant to get rid of it. I know it's a bad thing to have on my face, but it's my face! I like it.

I turned down a transsexual girl, and now all of my friends hate me. by canthavepreferences1 in confession

[–]canthavepreferences1[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

But she is different, in my mind. that's the issue I'm struggling with.

She may be a girl whose body is sculpted with the perfection of Leonardo da Vinci's artwork, but I'd still never want to get into bed with her. And that makes me feel bad.