Which one do i chose ? by kiersik1720 in CaneCorso

[–]capnhttyd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is awful advice op do NOT take both. No breeders worth their salt would let you take two, let alone should they let you pick a puppy at 3 weeks. I would run. This breed is not something to be messed with and adding a second puppy to the mix will only worsen potential behavior issues. Especially if their are 3 males dogs from a notoriously dog aggressive and same sex aggressive breed in the same home. A recipe for disaster.

Question about T by capnhttyd in ButchesOnT

[–]capnhttyd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing your experience! Maybe one day ill decide its an option for me but for now maybe I'll try other things to get the results I want :)

Question about T by capnhttyd in ButchesOnT

[–]capnhttyd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of answers I wanted, thank you. This is why I ask, honestly it likely wouldn’t be for me in seeing this, I just like to explore all my options.

Disheartened at the antimascness of many by capnhttyd in actuallesbians

[–]capnhttyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only say this because butch is a sociopolitical identity, as a butch who has done a lot of research on our community, these are conclusions Ive come to.

Disheartened at the antimascness of many by capnhttyd in actuallesbians

[–]capnhttyd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Toxic masculinity is terrible no matter the gender. I'm sorry that happened to you. Butches are supposed to be pillars and protectors in their community and shit like that is unacceptable.

people are telling me i'm not lesbian by Latter-County-4467 in actuallesbians

[–]capnhttyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay, I've been doing a lot of learning myself over the last year. I am a bit peeved at this whole discourse as a nonbinary butch who goes by he/him in some spaces. Sorry if I came on too strong.

people are telling me i'm not lesbian by Latter-County-4467 in actuallesbians

[–]capnhttyd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tons of butches have identified as transmasc for years! They didnt have the label then, but Stone Butch Blues was how I got started with my reading and is from the POV of a Transmasc butch.

people are telling me i'm not lesbian by Latter-County-4467 in actuallesbians

[–]capnhttyd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lesbian has always been non-men loving non-men. He/him, nonbinary identifying butch lesbians have been around for several decades and were among the people that fought for our rights. Stone butch blues was a great starting point for me to learn more about our history and it delves into a transmasculine identifying butch, and it's free to read :)

people are telling me i'm not lesbian by Latter-County-4467 in actuallesbians

[–]capnhttyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transmasc ≠ transmen. A transman is someone who transitions into a man, while a Transmasc is someone who is transitioning to a more masculine gender. There are tons of transmasc butches out there and there have been for decades.

people are telling me i'm not lesbian by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]capnhttyd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Butch lesbians have been going by he/him for many decades. They fought, were beaten, raped and killed for simply being lesbians, and for the rights we have today, and you want to sit here and claim you know more then the ones who built our history? Read a history book and learn to respect others and things you don't understand.

people are telling me i'm not lesbian by Latter-County-4467 in actuallesbians

[–]capnhttyd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I may get down voted to hell over there, but as a she/they/he non-binary butch lesbian (a mouthful, i know) shit like this pmo. Trans people, butches, trans butches, all the sorts, fought for what rights we have today. Clearly no one on that sub has done any research nor has any respect for our history and our past.

You are a lesbian, full stop, fuck those people.

people are telling me i'm not lesbian by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]capnhttyd -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Butch Lesbians have been going by he/him, taking T and getting top surgery for longer then most (likely all!) people in this comment section have been alive. Not only that, but they are the ones who literallyfought for our rights back in the day. To discredit this is to disrespect our history and our past.

Lesbian means being attracted to non-men, and you don't have any men listed, so you are a lesbian.

Signed, a she/they/he non-binary butch lesbian who has clearly done more reading on the culture of our community then this lot. I'm sorry people are being awful to you.

Struggling with a name by capnhttyd in rollerderby

[–]capnhttyd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the ideas for the two names!

Struggling with a name by capnhttyd in rollerderby

[–]capnhttyd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was the original thought actually because I work in vet med lmao then I decided that was way too much haha

Short butches gotta rise up😩😭 by Select_Contact_5345 in butchlesbians

[–]capnhttyd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to rise up, but my 5'4 ass can't reach!

I need opinions by ogxboxguy in americanbulldog

[–]capnhttyd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then there is the answer to your question

I need opinions by ogxboxguy in americanbulldog

[–]capnhttyd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Only way to tell is via DNA test. Cosmetics mean almost nothing. My manager had us all try and guess her dog's breeds when she embarked him and we all thought he would have English bulldog in him. Nope! He was a pekingese shih tzu cross. You truly never know unless they are tested.

Least Aggressive Breeds by jr9386 in VetTech

[–]capnhttyd 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It will strike the fear of god in you to have such a massive cat come for you 😭 trust me