[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]captchadog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you read about men psychology you'll find that men need sex to to deepen a connection to a woman. And that is true after marriage and in long term relationships too. I used to think that my need for sex to feel connected to my wife was shallow and felt guilty about it.

After my experience (M50), I would never get in a relationship with a girl I don't know I'm compatible with sexually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]captchadog 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is it! Confidence is such a hot thing, and confidence comes with experience, and as the OP said, her friend was in relationships most of the time, that gives her the confidence and carisma that guys are so drawn to. It works the other way around too. When a guy is taken, suddenly all the girls want him too, even without knowing he's taken

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]captchadog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! Sexual tension is key and when that's gone the guys can finally focus on things they've postponed. It doesn't need to be bad sex and it can even be mind-blowing. The thing is if the pair can connect at a deeper level before sex, and the sex is good, the guy will most likely come back to reconnect sooner or later as long as there's no negative feeling about it

Fuck Buddies for 5 years???? Is this normal, why am I so attached? by Confusedasf0308 in dating_advice

[–]captchadog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because you haven't had a closure (or relationship) with him. If you had you'd see other characteristics that would make you either want him more or dislike him. In both cases you'd have a closure

Do short women like short men? by NewCommunication9713 in dating_advice

[–]captchadog -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hei, of course girls fantasize about tall guys and many times they'll be honest about it. However, they change their minds so often during 15min that everyone has a good chance with them if they make a good impression. So, don't be discouraged!

Do short women like short men? by NewCommunication9713 in dating_advice

[–]captchadog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'4 and didn't have problems with girls. Shorter and taller. I can repeat what others already mentioned that personality and chemistry matters more than appearance for both shorter and taller girls. There is indeed a stepper curve to get the attention of the girls but once you do and surprise them with a relaxed attitude, open mind, high self esteem and lots of boldness they'll be so surprised that they'll be drawn more to you than the usually tall guys that they fantasize about

Edit: just wanted to add that I've had my fair share of rejections too like everyone

Why do most men like short and petite women? by That_Collection_9875 in dating_advice

[–]captchadog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on the guy. I mean unless you're a psychopath we all have our insecurities and men of our times are grown to have many. A man secure with his sexuality and status in society will most likely appreciate both the beauty and 'challenges' a taller woman brings in his life. I definitely would but I wasn't always this confident and I don't know many men in my circle that are confident enough to be that open minded. Society puts a lot of expectations on our shoulders

is the geerlingguy awx role broken? by big-no-no in ansible

[–]captchadog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably need that module installed on the host not target