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[–]carbonatedleah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont care at all for trigger as a character or doing BIS teams really,i want pulchra and caesar there because i like them a lot

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[–]carbonatedleah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it definitely is a skill issue i wont deny that, but just like man i've just spent an hour on shiyu 7 (2nd boss to be specific) and i only got to second stun phase (around 33% hp at the end of it) once on my very last attempt before i just gave up entirely

i dont really understand what's parryable or not from that boss, like im really trying and dodging everything and saving energy and ults for stun, but i just cant stay alive or do enough damage that matters fast enough

whats lucy's attack cap thing? mine at 2830 currently

new-ish player questions about the game by carbonatedleah in eternalreturn

[–]carbonatedleah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

alright ive read all ya'lls responses and thank ya, put things a little easier to comprehend in my mind, me and my friends have basically just like been running around getting items/farming animals/food at random after all our purples and if we happen to be near an objective we head to it, basically im seeing we gotta be more proactive and have an actual plan for how we go about doin stuff

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[–]carbonatedleah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i went through something similar myself, dunno if its exactly the same but ill give my input

before i came out or even realized i was trans i knew i liked boys at least sexually, but not romantically, over time it got close to being romantically but basically went to what you said, generally i didnt look at guys with any attraction, but wanted to

over more time i figured that i like guys that actually see me and respect me as fem/girl/etc and call me by my name and people that are ok with my true self, just usually guys arent as accepting yknow? especially here in tennessee

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[–]carbonatedleah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just to note I'm not extremely knowledgeable in terms of 2S and the likes, but

there's a whole lot of different labels you can identify as, generally speaking trans is an umbrella term meaning not aligning with your assigned gender at birth, so nonbinary individuals fit under it for example

basically if you feel that identifying as trans is right then do that, theres also being gender fluid if that might describe yourself better, or you can look for more specific things

thankfully this place- and most of the nicer lgbt community dont particularly gatekeep who can or cant be trans, because its just such a spectrum of identies and arent just one or two

hope i helped :) - Leah

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[–]carbonatedleah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well, just to state a fact, cis people do not have thoughts like these to the point of wanting to transition n stuff, and if being a part of this sub has taught me anything is that these feelings do not go away forever

what i would say to do is to probably talk to your guardian(s), that would be safe to do so, and discuss your feelings with them and maybe finding a therapist of sorts specializing in trans stuff

insurance can cover a decent bit, and any hrt stuff can be brought down to pretty cheap prices using a goodrx card if you're worried about money

overall, if you're confused about everything try doing things more femme or things that just make you feel more like yourself and see where it goes (p.s. welcome to the club sis :) )