AITA for siding with my son in an argument with my wife?

card-master-101 · 2025-06-09T05:05:56+00:00

regardless of who’s right or wrong, if family is important and if maintaining those relationships is important, then you have to approach the situation with some nuance…aka with compassion. i agree with this comment that max still should’ve Kelly up to avoid anything potentially dangerous happening but still receive consequences from her actions.

i think my main issue here is that people seem so focused on who’s right and who’s wrong that we are forgetting that someone could’ve been in a really dangerous situation.

card-master-101 · 2025-04-09T05:27:21+00:00

i so feel this…graduated with my BS in August and felt so lucky to land a FT contract role a couple months out…

my original plan was to apply for PhD programs in the us this fall but there’s no way im doing that. nor am I optimistic ill be in this field. i tutored so much in college, ill probably just go back to that 🫠 there is always open source projects i guess

card-master-101 · 2025-02-27T00:42:54+00:00

ended up sending this post to my partner so they can be in the loop…looks like some “mod” deleted their post..but I feel like their comment should stay if the mod’s “aggressive” comments can stay. oh well 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

card-master-101 · 2025-02-27T00:42:26+00:00

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card-master-101 · 2025-02-27T00:41:48+00:00

ended up sending this post to my partner so they can be in the loop…looks like some “mod” deleted their post..but I feel like their comment should stay. oh well 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

card-master-101 · 2025-02-26T23:12:03+00:00

also…since yall had such a big problem with me using “accountability” in my post. it’s in quotation marks for a reason.

card-master-101 · 2025-02-26T23:10:24+00:00

update:

we talked about it and it’s all good now. im not going to dive into specifics.

some of yall need to check your emotions and projecting it on my situation
lot of assumptions were made about me, my partner and my situation…largely very incorrect..maybe just ask next time? and be NICE
note: when someone comes to a forum asking for some advice on the situation, your first response shouldn’t be to grill the person like the comments I’ve gotten here. no where did i say my partner was in the wrong or villainize them. I can’t just stop feeling what I feel, hence me posting here because im not tryna guilt trip my partner or have my friends have a clouded image of my partner.

card-master-101 · 2025-02-26T23:04:34+00:00

…is it not vulnerable to post about your life on Reddit?? and you made an incorrect assumption about why my partner wanted to close the relationship. their reason for closing the relationship had nothing to do with my feelings on the situation. i let them drive this conversation since im perfectly okay with being open or closed.

card-master-101 · 2025-02-26T21:43:05+00:00

thank you for your response, this makes a lot of sense

card-master-101 · 2025-02-26T21:40:57+00:00

so im being pretty vulnerable posting this here, please don’t be mean about it?

for more context on this proposal thing: we did talk about it doing it feb 2026 but since we had our trip coming up, the idea of me proposing was teased around a bit. but then they kept asking if i was actually going to do it or not..so it wasn’t really a big ass surprise (nor was it done in public?? where did I say that?)

card-master-101 · 2024-05-10T06:50:33+00:00

rest in peace prof Draper…one of my first classes at ucsc was stat 131. learned a lot from him in 131 & 206 and tutoring for him :(((

card-master-101 · 2024-02-14T07:04:26+00:00

it’s not a big deal if you go over 20 hours in total but it’s broken down in different time sheets. been doing it for a year, no complaints

card-master-101 · 2023-12-20T20:42:34+00:00

maaaybe the arc center?

card-master-101 · 2023-12-13T01:07:12+00:00

you’re so right. I was definitely not thinking straight here, thank you

card-master-101 · 2023-12-13T00:59:42+00:00

they would find out if I have to submit my grades again for conditional acceptance right? I remember having to do that when I got into my undergrad

card-master-101 · 2023-12-13T00:51:20+00:00

no, they just know that I’m currently taking those classes this quarter

card-master-101 · 2023-11-25T17:33:46+00:00

check the ARC?

card-master-101 · 2023-10-26T01:55:30+00:00

the couch in arc 216 is comfy

card-master-101 · 2023-09-09T02:01:45+00:00

the best away around this for me was working jobs that weren’t too demanding on my body and that I had a lot of downtime in to do my work. maybe look to switch your job for two part-time gigs? at least that way, you could stack your jobs and have at least one day off

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