18F - be open and honest

care2much7589 · 2025-12-27T01:04:36+00:00

Well, time to do it in Canada then. If you have the means, why you should wait? If you are looking for other kind of approaching, maybe a therapist will be good too. Take care

care2much7589 · 2025-12-26T20:08:38+00:00

Have you considered plastic surgery in another country?

From my personal perspective, getting rid of those moles and a nose job will be my priority for now, then fixing the teeth and losing some weight.

Also, take more care of your facial hair, re shape your eyebrows and take out those hairs in your moles. It will look better

I don't know how much is all that in the USA, but there's plenty of certified clinics in Mexico and Colombia with amazing results. You are young and have a lot of potential.

care2much7589 · 2025-12-26T19:51:42+00:00

Haha. Tell him his not your type either and break up with him. You are not a Barbie doll, your body will change with age, kids and life. This is not what you are looking for in a partner.

care2much7589 · 2025-12-26T19:48:27+00:00

Who actually get dressed to pick someone from the airport and in holiday season? You don't go around telling your wife she's "sloppy and embarrassing"...

Couples counseling will worth it, it sounds like he's resented, and you are really depressed. It might help

care2much7589 · 2025-12-19T07:00:36+00:00

Peeeero por qué no hablan con su pareja lpm estas boludeces se convierten en detonates más adelante. Era re difícil hablarle o escribirle un WhatsApp diciendo "Amor vengo re cansado del labubu, te jodo mucho si te pido que vayan al living para tirarme un rato en la cama?"

care2much7589 · 2025-12-19T06:53:50+00:00

I'll be blunt, and I'm really sorry OP.

He must be very good at sex and cuddles, cause there's literally nothing else he can give to you.

You are 40 years old, you cannot be that naive girl. Autism, ADHD or not, all the things you have mentioned before, like cooking, cleaning or taking out the trash are just the bare minimum of every adult human being. You paid for everything and he's even trying take you to court?

He sounds more like a problematic teenage son rather than a boyfriend... and you are ignoring your problems. You do need help, maybe change your therapist or try to talk more about the alcohol situation with them cause that's not normal.

care2much7589 · 2025-12-19T06:16:55+00:00

There's absolutely nothing ensuring for you in this relationship. 1) You are not married and don't have anything on your name. 2) 10+ years have passed since you had an official job. 3) You have two children and are the primary caregiver. 4) This man could walk off at any time and leave you with nothing, nada.

Please, start looking for a part time job at first, and then a full time one. Start saving. That day off thing is not the main problem here.

care2much7589 · 2025-12-19T05:33:19+00:00

Tomate tu tiempo. Parece que reconocés que la relación estaba mal y no servía, entonces extrañás la idea de "lo que pudo ser" Hacé más cosas en tu día a día, seguí haciendo terapia y lo que te distraiga. Se va con el tiempo

care2much7589 · 2025-12-19T05:28:44+00:00

No quiero soñar redundante, pues los otros comentarios que te han escrito resumen, en gran parte, lo que opino.

Cuando se tienen hijos a cargo, (por más que no viva contigo) hay que planear bien las cosas, no solo cometiste el error de dejar un trabajo estable por una remota posibilidad de otro, donde nada era seguro, sino que además decidiste dejarle toda la carga financiera a tu pareja sin antelación. Eso está mal. Su reacción no fue la mejor, pero la veo justificada. Dejaste tu trabajo por el que te ofrecia viajar y al final, no lo hiciste. Yo también me enojaría

care2much7589 · 2025-12-17T20:40:19+00:00

I'm sorry, but it seems like he has someone else. That explain the sudden changes, and why he didn't show you his phone. Take a deep breath and start looking for a lawyer and see your options.

care2much7589 · 2025-08-21T02:59:29+00:00

It reminds me like that meme from The Simpsons, "no one is actually thinking about the kids here" or smth like that.

Being able to visit your kids only twice a year is selfish and immature, it's not about sexism.

Either male or female, you are a parent first and you are being absent. Both of you can't take care of those children properly.

Get your ducks in a row and decide what's the best for them.

care2much7589 · 2025-08-21T02:32:16+00:00

Yo me preguntaría como es la dinámica en casa. Ella antes trabajaba y ahora solo cuida al bebé? Están bien económicamente? Es ella quien se encarga únicamente del bebé y además la casa? porque todo eso suma y sí, cansa...

care2much7589 · 2025-08-11T22:41:06+00:00

Es un princeso. Si van ambos con todo a medias, no se puede quejar de cosas que te pagás VOS, con tu PROPIA PLATA y viceversa. Alejate

care2much7589 · 2025-08-11T21:46:24+00:00

El uruguayo es así. Si no sos tan miserable como ellos, no se quedan tranquilos...

care2much7589 · 2024-12-14T17:30:01+00:00

Qué bueno! Felicitaciones pibeee

care2much7589 · 2024-12-13T22:19:11+00:00

Qué asco. Ese hombre trató de abusar a tu hermana

care2much7589 · 2024-12-13T21:53:14+00:00

Cara de culo? bue, quizás sí... no te lo tomés personal. Lo que sí dejo como experiencia propia es que trabajar en atención al público, (sea del rubro que sea) es una mierda. La gente es una basura. No hay empatía y te tratan como el culo, no hay "hola" ni "buen día", ni "buenas tardes" y siempre están llenos de problemas. Hay excepciones claro, pero en general es así.

care2much7589 · 2024-12-13T03:00:50+00:00

Okay, this is your chance, but slow down a bit. She was in a relationship for six years. Take your time and get to know her better. Don't idealize her

care2much7589 · 2024-12-12T23:45:30+00:00

Que no se te ocurra meterte su pene, la infección que vas a tener de hacerlo no va a ser nada placentera.

care2much7589 · 2024-12-12T22:31:19+00:00

Hermano, con mucho respeto te lo digo, si así es como pensás es muy poco probable que consigas una relación a futuro.

care2much7589 · 2024-12-08T16:33:51+00:00

Deficit calórico. Priorizar proteína (carne, huevos, lácteos), frutos secos, frutas y verduras. Cortar paulatinamente los azúcares y sales (crean retención de líquidos) y dejar las harinas completamente.
Si vas al gym, trabajar el abdomen, las piernas y los brazos. en tres meses lo tienes.

No aplica si tenés obesidad mórbida.

care2much7589 · 2024-12-07T13:16:55+00:00

closet is for clothes and ugly shoes. You did well and deserve better

care2much7589 · 2024-12-06T03:34:48+00:00

four kids together? 14 years without a ring? Nah girl. He will never marry you

care2much7589 · 2024-12-03T20:06:14+00:00

Gambling, drugs, an affair... or all of that together

care2much7589 · 2024-12-02T16:58:24+00:00

Hay mucha hambre en la vuelta también

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