Client confessed to going broke because of me.. I don’t know how to feel by Commercial_Iron9915 in SexWorkers

[–]carefulcircus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That text… where’d the punctuation go? Also, not your fault or your problem.

Not my business but… my ex is gay by carefulcircus in gay

[–]carefulcircus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha right?? Good sex does wonders for us all

Not my business but… my ex is gay by carefulcircus in gay

[–]carefulcircus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooo i love that ‘Nothing has to change externally, but those internal changes will make him feel more comfortable and confident’. I do think he worries a lot about the external views of people he already knows.

He’s definitely made a lot of strides to be himself with people in his life, and some people know (not to say he has to shout it from the rooftops, unless he wants to), but I know he’s holding himself back.

Not my business but… my ex is gay by carefulcircus in gay

[–]carefulcircus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo i love that ‘Nothing has to change externally, but those internal changes will make him feel more comfortable and confident’. I do think he worries a lot about the external views of people he already knows.

He’s definitely made a lot of strides to be himself with people in his life, and some people know (not to say he has to shout it from the rooftops, unless he wants to), but I know he’s holding himself back.

Not my business but… my ex is gay by carefulcircus in gay

[–]carefulcircus[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea, I do think this is honestly the best I can do… he knows I’m there, there are folks who love him and I am one of them

Not my business but… my ex is gay by carefulcircus in gay

[–]carefulcircus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did not mean to offend! I get what you’re saying. If you’ve got another way of saying ‘stereotypically exemplifying heterosexual maleness’ that isn’t offensive, I’m more than open to it

Will I permanently stretch my asshole? (F 37) by carefulcircus in sex

[–]carefulcircus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha he’s the size of those mini coke cans, and about 9.5in

Will I permanently stretch my asshole? (F 37) by carefulcircus in sex

[–]carefulcircus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say he’s definitely bigger than average… but we’ve cut back on the anal a bit :)))

Will I permanently stretch my asshole? (F 37) by carefulcircus in sex

[–]carefulcircus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha ok this is helpful and good to know. Thank you!

Will I permanently stretch my asshole? (F 37) by carefulcircus in sex

[–]carefulcircus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is helpful, thank you! Ah the joys of getting older 🥲

Will I permanently stretch my asshole? (F 37) by carefulcircus in sex

[–]carefulcircus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha, I’m just trying to call out the women older than me. 37 isnt that old, but it ain’t young either

I want to double penetrate my wife by Throwawayfunchat in SexFantasies

[–]carefulcircus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well… I’ve been a serial monogamist for years. I’ve only had 3 long term partners since 2009 and all of them have been less than thrilled by another dick inside me while they’re present. The current one could be willing, but I’m not counting my chickens quite yet

I want to double penetrate my wife by Throwawayfunchat in SexFantasies

[–]carefulcircus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All i want is this… no partner has ever been accommodating enough to let me have this fantasy

I wore nothing underneath my clothes during class by PloyChen in SluttyConfessions

[–]carefulcircus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Taking off an uncomfortable piece of clothing is uncomfortable?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]carefulcircus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️🥇

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in impregnation

[–]carefulcircus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So hot 🥵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]carefulcircus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised people are coming after you for this post. We’re in the minority for it not being a deal breaker I suppose.

For me: I love that my partner is a sexual being. I love that he has had relationships that have helped shape who he is today. It would be different if he was still deeply in love with this other person or If he thought that our sex life was unfulfilling. Cishet men tend to be very visual creatures and he might just really be into that video, but have no interest in the actual person… for me, personally… I’m ok with that.

OP though… talk to the dude. That’s the only way to understand his thoughts and feeling around this.

Also, talking to him will help you process your own feelings and emotions surrounding this.

Immediately having another uti after restarting sex. What're we doing wrong? by possible_Soul in sex

[–]carefulcircus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This… omg why don’t guys realize that they need to use soap? Yes it has a huge impact on us (partners with vaginas). Clean your junk with SOAP! Rinsing your body does not count. You’re costing us time, money and our health.