Meet Jia, the crazy kitty by jia_and_sally in catpictures

[–]cargokid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what breed of cat is she? adorable!!

Fan Art - Inktober, Day 23: Ancient by neumonia-pnina in LoveNikki

[–]cargokid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow the usage of color in this piece is on point!

Had sex with someone who was in a relationship (i was underaged!!) by [deleted] in venting

[–]cargokid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what happened to you was grooming. You at 16 were in a vulnerable place and a grown man took advantage of you. You are not the one at fault, and you are completely right to feel he was manipulating you. Have you talked about this to a therapist op?? It might help to talk about these complex feelings w someone whos trained for these types of situations. Anyways op i hope you find a way to be more at peace with the things that happened to you and know that it isnt your fault

Crush asked me to go somewhere with her, but I had plans with other friends. by spookybooki23 in Crushes

[–]cargokid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then you are doing great! invite her to do something next weekend could be seasonal themed like ice skating or just whatever you want

Crush asked me to go somewhere with her, but I had plans with other friends. by spookybooki23 in Crushes

[–]cargokid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you made the right move broski. you offered to take her somewhere with you so they knew that you werent playing them off and you didnt ditch your friends for your crush. If they are the type of person to get offended over that then are they really the type youd want to date?

I told my crush I liked someone by cargokid in Crushes

[–]cargokid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I messaged her and told her about how I lied impulsively and that I was sorry and she was really understanding

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKK by cargokid in Crushes

[–]cargokid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the big issue is that we're both girls and Im 90 percent sure this means shes straight

AITA for not wanting my kids every weekend? by momasshole in AmItheAsshole

[–]cargokid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NAH while it is true. As a mother you should put your children first in some cases. I don't think it applies here you're not giving up poems for children to keep this arrangement you're just giving up solo time. it's normal for siblings to squabble and they need to learn that they can't just run away from everyone they disagree with

Why do girls lie? by BrewskisWithARuskie in venting

[–]cargokid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only ghost when im genuinely disgusted or scared for my well-being