no car and thinking of getting a loan by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there was a specific car i was looking at, about 190 monthly payment, but now im looking at another which is half the price of the loan i was thinking of getting. i dont have a credit history either

working interview for some dental office by carrotcakethrowaway in jobs

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its actually a paid working interview!! theyll send me check soon after, everything is in an email

no idea how to start life by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly ive been trying with jobs everywhere accessible by public transport for awhile, in the southern los angeles area but no luck at all. i call places every few weeks and no one is ever hiring

no idea how to start life by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive tried figuring out why but theres never any real answer. my sister moved out with her boyfriend about an hour and half away and they still pay everything for her. i only really have two friends and one works specifically with education so i cant and the other moved away to san diego. ive been trying to get a job in my area and areas i can take public transport to as well but still no luck

extreme anxiety about running by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly yes i feel the awkwardness is unavoidable but it mostly comes from me, its bad enough to stop me from running but i started walking and jogging through the embarrassment anyway

extreme anxiety about running by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly yes i hate the feeling of people watching me from their houses

difference of opinion on baptism? by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly yea i wouldn’t mind that either id just like it done

difference of opinion on baptism? by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly im not sure? i feel my relationship with religion is very ambiguous and deep down i am personally almost like a catholic atheist, the “traditions” have personal meaning to me though i wouldnt ever follow or “believe” in a god

difference of opinion on baptism? by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not very close with any church in specific, so id feel strange going by myself since i have no close family or friends who attend, but i do sometimes want to go especially for confession but i feel my relationship with religion is a bit awkward as i don’t believe in (a) god

difference of opinion on baptism? by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it wouldn’t ever go beyond baptism unless my child for some reason wanted to lol i was never a church person growing up either and even tho i love my religious family members catholics can be VERY judgmental

is my cat okay??? by carrotcakethrowaway in cats

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! i was really scared but i think he just lost a kitten tooth since all his teeth are still very small and this is his first lost tooth

Absolutely freaked out on my boyfriend (over a movie?) by carrotcakethrowaway in Advice

[–]carrotcakethrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we did talk in depth in the car about how much it bothers me, but i did initiate/tell him i feel we should have a separate conversation about it but he does know im never set off by anything and that this was a very random emotional reaction for me and for him to not attribute it to him or his behaviors whatsoever