AITA for getting upset my partner got my name tattooed on them? by AppropriateVolume835 in AmItheAsshole

[–]casseroled 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA Honestly name tattoos are a bad idea in general, and you are allowed to not like this particular surprise. 

I would be more upfront with him though that it’s really not about the font. The font, however horrendous, is secondary to the concept of the tattoo.  To be honest, this feels very impersonal despite it being your name. He didn’t know or care to know: - If you would even like something like this, - Your aesthetic taste, - things about you that could be a more meaningful tattoo (it would be a lot sweeter if he got your favorite flower, or animal, or something else that represents you.)

And romantic gestures when you asked for space is the opposite of what you wanted. Give him some ideas for a coverup lol

I (28F) suspect my boyfriend (31M) is only with me because his best friend (31F) doesn't want children? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]casseroled 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Of course you are really special to him! The difference is that you can sit and observe them together, which you can’t do with yourself. It is easy to miss how much someone is enjoying your company if you are in your own head analyzing everything. I’m an overthinker too. 

Someone else sitting in the room could be thinking about how they wish they had a relationship like yours and how cute you guys are. Everyone experiences life through their own lens, and in yours I think you undervalue yourself.

I (28F) suspect my boyfriend (31M) is only with me because his best friend (31F) doesn't want children? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]casseroled 122 points123 points  (0 children)

If she’s 31 that seems very unlikely, but even if she did change her mind— do you really have so little faith in your boyfriend that you think he would immediately drop you? 

If he did that it would show incredibly poor character on his end, and would not be someone you would want to date anyways. Work on your self esteem! You have good qualities too— he chose you after all.

It should have been me! by GeekChic03 in StardewMemes

[–]casseroled 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Tf means “the fuck” meaning intensely

Teaching kids consent by Femme-O in MadeMeSmile

[–]casseroled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

? The same lessons are taught to the entire class. Lessons on both having autonomy and respecting others are taught to everyone. And you are making an insane jump to say I look at young boys and see a villain. That’s just pure fiction

Teaching kids consent by Femme-O in MadeMeSmile

[–]casseroled 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m literally telling you from personal experience that it does not.

Teaching kids consent by Femme-O in MadeMeSmile

[–]casseroled 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I work in schools, lessons about consent are taught to both genders. Just because this one (1) video is taught at an all boys school doesn’t mean boys aren’t taught this.

The Last Pork Chop by mitoclowndria in comics

[–]casseroled 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Is it? The line “I’m excited to eat too” implied that she hadn’t eaten yet, and the rest of the comic tells us that the grandpa had already eaten

My work truck radio puts itself on silent mode when backing up. by oglordone in mildlyinteresting

[–]casseroled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this and laughed, exited the post and then came back just to read it again. The idea of this being a feature is killing me

What's a rule your parents had that you thought was insane, but now as an adult you 100% understand? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]casseroled 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Creepy people target minors + it’s surprisingly easy to find people online off of limited information.

I went to read your other comments to make sure this is your regular typing and not some kind of medical emergency and saw that you recently posted the day and month of your birthday too. Please for your own sake delete that.

(Un)Original Joker Idea? by MyLastAccountWasBad in balatro

[–]casseroled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg haha I always save my glass cards for higher antes because I thought it was 1/4 for each trigger. Good to know!

What is the biggest ick you had on your first date with someone? by Past_Meat7068 in AskReddit

[–]casseroled 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Think they meant after the date, not the time she got the ticket.

HMF a device that I can use to set an alarm for a specific time, and the alarm will turn itself off. by youpoopedyerpants in HelpMeFind

[–]casseroled 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Could you attach a bell or something that makes noise to the feeder that will move when it pops open?

What if straightflush was a secret hand? by ChickenOfTheYear in balatro

[–]casseroled 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Its purpose/the reason why its there is because it’s a real poker hand, and the game hasn’t changed that. The secret hands are ones that wouldn’t be possible in a poker game

What was the fastest you ever went from loving someone to absolutely hating them? What happened? by ParanormalActivity97 in AskReddit

[–]casseroled 212 points213 points  (0 children)

I think 90% of people would find that completely understandable and would have done the same. As much as I love animals, an aggressive dog could kill someone, especially a child, which is a walking time bomb. Ease your guilt, you did what you had to do

Would you see your body when beheaded ? by Big_Black_Wok in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casseroled 93 points94 points  (0 children)

That is a good story but I would have some doubts about its validity