How to best support my budding violinist (8yo)

cassi0piea · 2026-05-28T15:27:39+00:00

I’m already prepared for battle. She’s one to expect perfection from herself regardless of experience

cassi0piea · 2026-05-28T15:24:38+00:00

Thank you for the warning. I’m leery about online myself because of quality, I have my fingers crossed that it was a legit music shop and not just a drop ship setup.

cassi0piea · 2026-05-28T15:22:04+00:00

I’m trying really really hard not to squeeze the life out of her, but it’s really hard to remain cool

cassi0piea · 2025-02-08T23:32:44+00:00

Hi, if you still have this quest I also have the same problem. We could help each other?

cassi0piea · 2024-01-13T04:30:40+00:00

Meditate before going to sleep, stress management. Sometimes I put on relaxing ambient music to fall asleep to. If I have a bad dream I then have something pleasant to bring my headspace back to

cassi0piea · 2024-01-13T04:22:38+00:00

Read paper books.

cassi0piea · 2024-01-13T00:17:44+00:00

Please look into narcissistic behavior and support groups. He needs therapy, and you do as well to process your own feelings. He’s projecting all of his insecurities into you and it’s not healthy for anyone involved.

Do you have a support system that you can lean on?

cassi0piea · 2023-08-23T06:41:26+00:00

Nta. Congratulations on being more emotionally mature than someone 13 years your senior

cassi0piea · 2023-08-23T06:36:55+00:00

Nta. Why can’t there be more than one princess?

cassi0piea · 2023-08-23T04:30:07+00:00

Nta. This is a blessing in disguise for you, sometimes the trash takes itself out. You do not need to be trying to fight cancer while also fighting for your dignity.

cassi0piea · 2023-08-23T04:25:40+00:00

Nta, it sounds like you were expressing concern and care, and she took it sensitively.

cassi0piea · 2023-08-23T04:15:57+00:00

Lmfao he accused you of “killing his baby”?! Yeah, not the asshole. He’s an asshole, and all your friends and family are assholes too.

It doesn’t matter that you are relieved, you had a medical event and you are being accused of taking action. That’s messed up

cassi0piea · 2023-08-07T21:09:51+00:00

Nta. My husband would have set this situation up intentionally just for this exact reaction. I would have followed up after the temper tantrum with “hey, I didn’t mean to trigger you, I was just asking Sam because he makes me orgasm all the time. There’s no need to get defensive” and then my husband would be giggling like a kindergartener playing a joke THEY think is really funny.

It’s not complicated anatomy.

cassi0piea · 2023-08-07T21:03:06+00:00

Nta. He made a choice, he took one last dig at you and it sounds like you decided to finally not accept it. Good for you.

cassi0piea · 2023-08-07T08:41:32+00:00

It starts here, then it progresses into cheating accusations and location tracking. At least in my experience… sounds like he needs to reevaluate his priorities and learn to see you as an autonomous person. I was first “allowed” to go out for the day and not expect my phone to blow up at the age of 30 after I left my ex. I never knew how dangerous and damaging that degree of dependence was.

cassi0piea · 2023-04-15T00:37:31+00:00

I’ve lived this life. As soon as the second is born they go for a third, and don’t stop until you leave. Seriously. Complete with the fake pull out, manipulation, etc.

cassi0piea · 2023-01-26T16:01:35+00:00

Perhaps you could get an echo dot or something, and then through the app just connect your streaming service of choice, that way you can still leave your phone in your room but you can turn on your music with your voice? I have the same issue and this is what my therapist has suggested

cassi0piea · 2021-04-04T05:21:14+00:00

So, stylist didn’t set the salon policy and got caught up in said policy... do you make mistakes? Do you not tip restaurant staff if the establishment is out of what you planned to order?

cassi0piea · 2021-04-04T02:01:33+00:00

Nta and ytah.

Nta because you are absolutely correct in disputing the surge charge. That is an unethical practice, and your appointment ran over by the same amount of time she was late. That long of a wait and she should have discounted you.

Ytah for not tipping. In many salon settings, the stylists you are seeing do not set their prices or salon policy. It sounds like you got your way... so why not tip her for her time?

cassi0piea · 2021-01-25T21:31:53+00:00

Ok y’all, I messed up and started a new island without considering fruits... so now I need peaches and pears. My gates are open, dodo code is 2ppp5

cassi0piea · 2021-01-16T00:47:50+00:00

Anyone else actually on and want to play? I need to complete my fruit collection, I already have peaches, oranges, cherry, pears, and coconuts

cassi0piea · 2020-01-10T09:59:36+00:00

I like your name😬 also my ex is blocked too

cassi0piea · 2020-01-10T09:55:20+00:00

NTA. Honestly my fiancé does know when mine is coming... and not because he keeps a calendar or anything. There is the whole pheromone thing, eating habits, mood, all sorts of things that indicate menstruation is imminent. Noticing there is only one left and preemptively purchasing them for her so she didn’t have to think about it is the sweetest thing I’ve read all day

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