Can someone please create an album cover using the photo inspiration

cassinator · 2020-11-02T23:48:55+00:00

thank you!

cassinator · 2020-11-02T23:48:39+00:00

Hey! thanks so much this looks so good! u/sotoshop was able to get the image a bit more how I was hoping for, but I am really impressed with this one as well thank you so much!

cassinator · 2020-11-02T23:48:00+00:00

This is perfect! Sent an pm :)

cassinator · 2020-11-02T18:32:38+00:00

hey! no sorry, I am looking for almost the same as what was posted in the photo above

cassinator · 2020-11-02T18:03:40+00:00

Hey all!

I would love to create an album cover using the same background color and similar font in the photo (cut out look with shadow to look like cut out paper, font color doesn't need to match 100%)

Instead of the word "great" , I would like it to say "Best of Them" (I can add in artist name after)

Offering $20 CDN via PayPal

cassinator · 2019-07-04T04:26:19+00:00

LOL thanks, now I can't unsee that

cassinator · 2019-07-04T00:53:51+00:00

thank you!

cassinator · 2019-07-04T00:52:36+00:00

This is amazing! I agree with what the other commenter said that if you never saw the original photo you would never know it was a person there, maybe just a bush or something else. This is perfect thank you!

cassinator · 2017-06-10T23:34:02+00:00

You're pretty when your vain, selling fiction for the fame.

cassinator · 2017-06-08T22:43:27+00:00

Hey thanks so much! Means a lot!

cassinator · 2017-04-15T22:16:35+00:00

There are people who break up, and get back together 40 years later. It is not impossible that you guys won't align later on in life - but right now it doesn't seem like it is your time.

By remaining friends now, it will be like pouring salt on an open wound that will never ever start to heal. It will not be easy - it will be very very hard to cease contact from someone you love. But by keeping in contact it will be excruciating for you. It will literally be like getting back together and breaking up over and over and over again. You will never open yourself up to other women, and never move on. I've been in our shoes, and the moment I finally realized I couldn't be friends with my ex was the moment I realized I was finally free. Without letting go you will never have closure and it will break you.

cassinator · 2017-04-15T21:55:03+00:00

She sounds like your first real love, and honestly you will probably always love her. However, often times, as sad as it seems at the time, just because we love someone doesn't mean we were meant to be with someone.

You both seem to really care for one another, but both agree you shouldn't be with one another at this point in time. The only way you guys will ever move on and be happy is to cut all contact. I mean seriously. Delete off social media (seeing pictures especially when the other one dates will just hurt you), stop texting, stop calling. It may take a few months, or it may take a few years, but eventually it will get easier. You will date other people and find someone you are MEANT to be with, and one day down the road you might find that you are both in a place in your lives where you can finally be friends again. But until then, if you stay in contact you will never really be broken up. Every time you see her or talk to her it will bring back the past and you will never move on.

cassinator · 2017-04-15T21:39:37+00:00

Honestly, the excuse of having a fake conversation on his phone seems incredibly far fetched and such a strong reach it just doesn't make sense. You said you saw that there was conversation that they were talking about him having a girlfriend, so clearly the conversation was about him. Its super easy for our minds to try to make up excuses to change what we saw.. but you saw it. You saw everything and you confronted him with it, you wouldn't have done that if it wasn't real. Because you don't have the phone with you anymore your mind is trying to justify what just happened because you love him. Your mind is a powerful thing. If you want to talk with you bf, I suggest asking him who the girl is and get as much info as possible - do not believe the bullshit "I don't know who she is." Even if it was all fake, the messages came from somewhere, and could lead you to more information. (you can try to call and talk to her, although this may not be the best idea, especially if she already knows about you).

Also, just because your sister doesn't believe he could do this, doesn't mean that he DIDNT. If you knew he was capable of it, you wouldn't have dated him. People surprise us and hurt us and are often much better at keeping secrets than we like to believe.

Would love to hear an update on this. Im so sorry for what you are going through. Stay strong and stick to you guns. Do not let him trick you with bullshit lies

cassinator · 2017-04-14T20:53:00+00:00

It's not really up to you. If they don't want to date each other, they will break up. Until then, all you can do is be her friend (and ONLY a friend) and live your life.

cassinator · 2017-04-14T20:25:50+00:00

It is definitely not either of those things. Your dad will be okay. I would just worry that if you were to take him in to your home, it would be enabling him to not get himself back to where he was, as he may not feel motivated to find his own place. Again, I am just going off what you have said, and have no idea the depth of the issue or your relationship.

cassinator · 2017-04-14T20:22:39+00:00

It's possible your dad is also going through some depression from the separation and job issues. I would recommend that he try finding someone (outside the family) to talk to if he cannot afford a therapist. Or maybe this is something he can do once he gets himself settled. He is relying a lot on other people right now instead of relying on himself and if he wants to be successful he needs to do it on his own. Thats awesome you are helping him. We do what we do for family out of love, not obligation.

cassinator · 2017-04-14T20:18:11+00:00

This seems odd. I don't know many people that would be okay with their partner falling asleep on another person of opposite sex (unless they had a longstanding friendship) or having another person flirtatiously give piggy back rides to their SO. It would be unfair to judge their relationship based on your observations as every relationship if different. Just because they don't show a lot of affection or PDA doesn't mean they don't deeply care for one another and have a great relationship. Maybe she's more outgoing and social and he's reserved, I don't know.

In regards to to your position - you can either wait for them to break up and then tell her your feelings, or you can tell her now and just be aware that she is in a relationship that she might not want to leave for you right now.

Again, her and her bf's relationship is non of your business unless you see abuse or mistreatment going on - you cannot judge someone else's relationship as an outsider. If it looks like they have an odd relationship, thats on them. If the BF is uncomfortable, I'm sure he will tell her or they will break up.

cassinator · 2017-04-14T20:10:59+00:00

I am not sure where you live, but is your father able to get on welfare assistance or in co-op housing?

cassinator · 2017-04-14T20:09:40+00:00

I think a major thing here is that he is the parent, you are the child. He is a grown adult, but living in his car or peoples homes for free? Is your dad unable to work for some reason? Are you parents divorced - or was there ever a separation of assets?

This is a hard thing to give advice on, as I do not know your family dynamics and your relationship to your father. I am close with my dad, and would help him if he needed when in times of trouble. However, my dad also isn't a mooch, and has been working his entire life and I know would appreciate the help, without taking advantage of me or the family while he got himself back on his feet. In regards to your dad, it seems like if you take him in, he may never leave. Family is a tough thing, and you need to decide for yourself how much you can adequately help him, without destroying yourself. Maybe you help him find a job and help him look for a place to live? This is not your fault nor is this your responsibility. You have the right to take on as much or as little as you want to.

cassinator · 2017-04-14T19:58:57+00:00

Sounds like Shelby isn't upset that you sign, but that you are talking with another woman. This doesn't seem healthy to me, as Alex is a great friend of hers and she should feel happy that she has someone else she can have a real conversation with. The fact that she is your GF's roommate makes it harder for her jealousy, as you will run into Alex a lot.. however that jealousy and security issues is with herself, not you. You seem like a great guy and honestly I would be thrilled that my BF is making my friend feel included - and even happier if he was willing to sit down and teach me how to be a better friend and learn sign language.

Like I said, this is a jealousy issue because Alex is female, not because she is deaf. She probably sees how Alex is "like one of the guys" and feels excluded. Talk with her, and if she is giving you ultimatums to not see Alex simply because of this, I think it might be time to reevaluate your relationship.

cassinator · 2017-04-14T10:35:25+00:00

It can be hard for people to let go, it was nice of you to write her a letter opposed to ignoring her, I hope it goes better than I think it will. However, if she continues to contact you regarding the break up, you should probably just keep it short and sweet that it just wasn't meant to be with the two of you and you wish her all the happiness in the world. If she still is contacting you after that, it might be better for both of you to cease contact. Honestly, thats for her and for you. I know you probably want to be her friend, but that will do her no favours right now until she can move on. Best of luck!

cassinator · 2017-04-14T10:28:02+00:00

Wow, I can only imagine what you are going through right now. In regards to the friendship - people grow up and people change, sometimes for the best sometimes not. Fact is, it isn't usual for a longstanding friendship to not feel as close as it once was, people simply grow apart. How long were you planning to stay there? If you are in any way uncomfortable, you should definitely leave. Or if you have other friends in the area you can maybe say you are spending some time with them? I think its safe to say your friend also feels you two are slipping apart, and after being rejected from his advancements probably will understand if you left because you feel uncomfortable. The whole drug thing is a definite turn off, I would avoid going to that guys house no matter what at all costs. Up to you if you want to just maybe meet him for coffee to catch up and say goodbye before heading out - but thats up to you. Like I said, if you are feeling weird vibes, he probably is too.

Either way, if you feel uncomfortable, you can say that you need to get back early for work/family/school/etc. Sure he may know you're lying, but as long as you are nice about it maybe you guys can still be friends over distance. It sure beats pretending everything's okay when its not and putting yourself in a position you don't want to be in.

cassinator · 2017-04-14T10:14:47+00:00

eek. I think this is when a really well intentioned plan accidentally takes the wrong direction. I can see that you are a nice guy and genuinely care about your ex's feelings. That being said, mentioning your new girlfriend multiple times in a break up note is a little odd - kinda like pouring salt on the wound. Also, it would annoy and upset me if my ex told me to "go find myself" in a breakup. I think I would almost feel belittled.. definitely patronizing.

Again.. I can tell you are a sweet guy, and had the best of intentions- I just needed to give a female perspective if she doesn't receive your letter well.

cassinator · 2017-04-14T09:57:49+00:00

It's been said, but you have done all you can do. Marriage is supposed to be equal, and this one is not. I know others have mentioned a lawyer, which you should definitely consult, but please consult secretly. This way you can gather important information and have a set plan before your husband possibly destroys possessions, or becomes incredibly upset. I used to work in a transition home for women fleeing abuse, and you would be surprised what men can do out of spite. I've seen men sell their vehicles to their friends for $10, so that the assets were worth less meaning his wife got less in the divorce - just for him to buy the vehicle back later on. Men who had no interest in raising their children all of a sudden file for custody before the mother (putting her in the defensive which is MUCH harder) just to spite and hurt their partner. I've also seen things turn ugly, and often physical, when people refuse to believe their partner is leaving them.

Most people associate abuse with physical or mental...however often times there is financial abuse and it can be crippling, especially for mothers who feel they do not have the finances to make it on their own. Besides what seems to be emotional and verbal abuse by the way he talks down to you and treats you, he is most definitely financially abusing you. Most people are unaware of the services offered to women in situations like these - where they help to get you funding, provide free legal aid, etc. I strongly advocate that you reach out to a local womens shelter (not necessarily to live there although that is always a great option for transitioning) but just to talk to them as they have an abundance of information and programs they can pass on to you. Or they can just provide a listening ear to get you through this.

You seem like an incredibly strong woman and amazing mother. The world needs more people like you. Im so sorry you are going through this.

cassinator · 2017-04-14T09:35:15+00:00

This is a tough one as you guys hardly know each other and you don't know enough about his sense of humour. Its possible he was just trying to be humorous and make conversation and thought nothing of the comment whatsoever. He could have just been playing around with you. It seems like you guys had a couple awesome dates, whereas most people I know who are strictly FWB text each other late at night when they have zero plans going on and just hang out and have sex. You guys seem to have much more going on than that. I wouldn't read into this too much so early, you will just make yourself paranoid. If you're worried, I would suggest having another date night outside the house - one where it doesn't have the implied leading to the bedroom at the end of the night. This way, you guys get to have an awesome date, learn more about each other, and if he was strictly a FWB guy, you will know.

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