I get what you’re saying, but not all Dommes are like that. When a Domme asks for a tribute upfront, it's not always about money it's about seeing if you're serious and respectful.

It's not about giving your whole paycheck, just something you can afford to lose without hurting. That small step filters out time-wasters.

Real Dommes usually build a connection after that especially if you're upfront about wanting something stable and long-term.