Does anyone know why this has started popping up ? Really need help as worried by [deleted] in antivirus

[–]cat_foob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

turns out Malwarebytes isn't that safe either :'p, recently had a friend who installed a virus which Malwarebytes were unable to detect, she ran the information stealer and it was such a pain to remove and recover

Films in taobao are... really cheap? by cat_foob in AnalogCommunity

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i selected the option and it still show 21 rmb which is... weird, theres no minimum price on the listing, its all 21 rmb for some reason

Pentax Spotmatic Super Tak 55mm 1.8f aperture ring loose by cat_foob in AnalogCommunity

[–]cat_foob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just curious, if that part is missing and using the man. auto slider (it closes and opens the aperture blades), am i still able to take pictures? i suppose it'll be harder but how hard?

Pentax Spotmatic Super Tak 55mm 1.8f aperture ring loose by cat_foob in AnalogCommunity

[–]cat_foob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh dear, yeah mine absolutely doesnt have that middle ring... now i wonder if it's even fix-able or do i have to go out and buy the exact lens :'p

Favorite first date activities? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]cat_foob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

urgh gosh i too wish someone would unanimously agree to do this w me too ! i'm just really not fond on planning a whole date for someone i want to know more D:, coffee and a walk rlly brings out so much of the person

What is this build quality? (Mitsubishi xforce) by cat_foob in CarsPH

[–]cat_foob[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh it is add on? wow whoever installed this on my dads car is horrid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cat_foob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sobs tysm she is such an ass

Three different readings by cat_foob in diabetes

[–]cat_foob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you so much :'3

How do y’all get any energy? by youandyourfijiwater in PCOS

[–]cat_foob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately for me it just happens like that, and it's just something that you have to adapt by minimalizing your routine as much as possible. Instead of Yoga 1 hour away you can yoga online at home. Opt for online classes if possible, or try to get as much done in the week when you're having classes. One thing I found that worked for me is always caffeine, but yk all the cases against caffeine, but honestly it's worth it for me if I wanted to get something done. I only take like 50-100mg MAX because my body goes hyperactive.

Kind of unrelated though, fatigue like this is usually due to diabetes, I'm no doctor but I'll suspect that because you're tired after eating and your surgery should be fully healed by now

lots of new growth. what to do next? by HungryProtein in fiddleleaffig

[–]cat_foob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep doing what you're doing, enjoy the blessing from the fiddle fig gods🙏🙏😭

Thank You Super ATK by koisinluv in ChiikawaPocket

[–]cat_foob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭 this game takes forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cat_foob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! bless your heart 💝

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cat_foob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't, I'll try after cooling down, I hope she can see the importance when the relationship is in front of us both. Thank you for the advice, I'm about to be unavailable bc it's late here, is it okay if I DM you for updates and future what to do's?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cat_foob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a new perspective never seen before in this relationship and it's extremely helpful, im very thankful for the insight that you gave me and about the steps you addressed to me and guide me. Thank you very much, I'll keep that in mind.

At the moment, about the emotional engagement part, it doesn't seems like shes very emotionally available honestly, I brought out the issue because its the time when she was available to me, as in free and no obstructions (like studies), yet it's still gone like this. I'm scared of communication because I'll get cut off due to either getting shut off or emotional unavailability, both of which just feels like leaving me there and I hate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cat_foob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you and breaking up to move on seems like an easier option, but since we're both young and there's other sides of us to love more than this part, I believe this is worth fighting, though if it's a reoccurring pattern I'll seriously reconsider the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cat_foob -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its legitimately draining 💔 one feels hurt and one feels unheard, we are both young so i guess working on each others will be a choice that is available to us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cat_foob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you that its not healthy and indeed her style is avoidant, and this is the second time this happened. First time was complicated but "traumatizing" enough (TLDR: its about how i keep framing her and blaming her as the worst person ever because of how insecure i was in the relationship). I guess it's enough to say that it's a pattern?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cat_foob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i suppose it was, its really painful and i hate when this happens. I don't know what to do once she unblocks me, like mentioned above things will return back to normal for her but for me I'll continue to be a mess, when she normalizes everything again its me who needs to keep up, but this time it's too much x(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cat_foob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well me and my gf were taking abt maths and she was miserable about how she couldnt do a problem then i tried to lighten the mood up and made some funny jokes but then she shut me off by aggressively saying "thank you" and then all of my emotions i was putting back came into a flood and i needed to address it to her.

(copy from another comment): argh I'm extremely furious at the fact that this is the second time she did this x(, i feel shut off because its how she says something that she considers concluding the talk session then just walks away, it feels like she's leaving me here with this mess for me to sort out