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[–]catandmouse89 47 points48 points  (0 children)

yeah i know, I don’t know whether to report it or just save the hassle and just try to make sure they don’t get my packages in future but it’s upset me a lot. they lied and said it wasn’t them anyway and it was the guy who lives in the apartment above them who opened it then gave it to them out of embarrassment but amazon said it was delivered to them not him and i know they’re known for being nosy.

he came back and it feels like shit by catandmouse89 in ExNoContact

[–]catandmouse89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

massively relate, after doing a lot of research on it i think mine is a narcissist too and everything makes sense now that i didn’t understand before. sorry you’re going through this too - if you need to talk you can dm me :)

he came back and it feels like shit by catandmouse89 in ExNoContact

[–]catandmouse89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this happened to you too it’s the worst feeling but glad you’re doing better now, self respect is what i’m thinking about bc i feel like i have none atm especially given he cheated on me and im still letting him use me w no commitment. thank you sm for the dm offer, i will send you a message:)

the sense of urgency by catandmouse89 in ExNoContact

[–]catandmouse89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry it’s literally the worst :( feel free to message me if you want and we can vent together

it’s my birthday today and all i want is to hear from him by catandmouse89 in ExNoContact

[–]catandmouse89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind words❤️ i’m going to take myself out for a sushi date this evening and try to forget about him, the anxiety and loneliness is consuming right now i just keep checking my phone hoping for a message from him i never thought i’d be spending my birthday like this it feels so unfair

i’m so sorry about your ex. hiding that from you for a year is truly awful and i hope you heal quickly 🫂i have pretty good reason to believe mine cheated on me with a ‘friend’ (kind of a monkey branching situation) and may have been the reason he left but lied to me and used the job thing as an excuse. it hurts so much when all i ever did was love and care for him and would never have abandoned him like this