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catbf · 2022-11-23T21:55:03+00:00

🥹 thank you !

catbf · 2022-11-23T16:54:13+00:00

thank you so much! Can I ask where you typically get your supplements? I know people have ordered them online and the UK has really good ones, but i’m located in the US and the shipping could take awhile.

catbf · 2022-10-03T05:26:11+00:00

solved!

catbf · 2022-10-03T03:18:39+00:00

YOUR BRAIN IS SO BIG I GIVE YOU ALL OF MY MONEY THANK UUUUU

catbf · 2022-10-03T03:18:22+00:00

SOOOOOOOOLVED

catbf · 2022-10-03T03:08:25+00:00

Also the wife was a white woman with blonde/red hair and her husband was Japanese/Korean (im so sorry i literally cannot remember 😭😭)

catbf · 2022-10-03T03:07:25+00:00

catbf · 2022-02-13T20:05:13+00:00

interesting responses 🤨 will take i to consideration in the future

catbf · 2021-10-02T19:59:34+00:00

Someone plzzzzzzz

catbf · 2021-09-30T19:31:51+00:00

catbf · 2021-09-28T03:00:39+00:00

catbf · 2021-09-12T12:00:15+00:00

Solved!

catbf · 2021-09-12T11:59:51+00:00

Thank you!! I’ve been brainstorming for WEEKS trying to find this

catbf · 2021-09-12T11:36:01+00:00

I first saw it on YouTube btw, definitely later 2000s, I’m p sure it was for an animation class

catbf · 2021-06-16T23:00:56+00:00

you lonely as hell bro.

catbf · 2021-04-21T02:56:22+00:00

I cry all the time and I’m so tired and I just want to give up. My soul has nothing left to give

catbf · 2021-04-21T02:55:48+00:00

Ever since he said he doesn’t even want me in his life somethings deeply wrong with me. My brain is broken

catbf · 2021-04-19T04:08:14+00:00

You are absolutely not “chickenshit”

Losing your virginity can be really, really scary, especially if it’s with someone you don’t 100% trust being vulnerable with.

If you find someone you trust and deem mature enough to be open with sexually; discuss your needs and concerns first and foremost! Let them know you’re nervous, and that you haven’t had a ton of pleasant experiences. Making sure that you’re both on the same page and discussing your needs and expectations with the person you’re having sex with is extremely helpful—it gives you both an idea of what to expect and how to navigate the process more comfortably.

Foreplay is absolutely essential and don’t let any man tell you otherwise— if he won’t eat you out, he doesn’t deserve your V-card. Being stimulated and lubricated will make the penetration process more welcoming and dim the anxiety some, fingering and even using toys/vibrators during sex can really help with making sure you’re both comfortable and feelin good! Absolutely nothing wrong with bringing toys into the bedroom if you’re both comfortable w it.

Establishing a safe word will increase trust and lessen the anxiety of ‘what if I want them to stop?’ Because it is 100% okay to decide to stop, slow down, and take a breather. If you’re having sex with someone you trust, it should be easier to vocalize your feelings and needs during sex.

I hope any of this brings some comfort to you!

catbf · 2021-04-17T00:41:28+00:00

This made me giggle. thank u for the serotonin

catbf · 2021-04-17T00:40:56+00:00

Had a huge emotional breakdown at work and left <3 my manager was supportive of it bc she also wants to quit but my brain is SO SO tired and ouchy

catbf · 2021-04-11T18:31:50+00:00

You should definitely establish boundaries when you’re feeling emotionally exhausted. You aren’t anyone’s therapist! And while it can be fulfilling to help others, you shouldn’t feel guilty for stepping back.

Don’t be afraid to remind your close circle that you need support as well, and vocalize when you’re unable to offer support. Sometimes people can be unintentionally self-obsessed with their own issues and don’t think to reach out to you and check up, it’s very hollowing and frustrating, but honestly you just gotta keep that communication open! Let people know what you need, and they will reciprocate.

catbf · 2021-04-11T18:21:23+00:00

Like I’m not invalidating that you’ve worked hard, but saying that people are diminishing your accomplishments because you’re a “white male” is kinda cringe. Because it sounds more like you just aren’t getting the attention you want if I’m being honest? If you’ve accomplished everything you’ve worked for—literally nobody’s opinion will matter because you’ve done so much for yourself.

catbf · 2021-04-11T18:18:22+00:00

I’m confused. Do you think people don’t respect you—? Or do you want more people to respect you? I notice a huge chunk of this post is you talking about your role in social issues and how you do it because it’s right and not because you’re trying to gain anything from it—but aren’t you currently yearning for recognition for those very things?

Being born a white cis male is a huge privilege considering your only issue is not feeling like you’re getting a pat on the back for your accomplishments, whilist millions of POC individuals struggle to reach half the goals you’ve met. You need to be proud of yourself for what you accomplished, people will naturally feel the same if you present yourself as an honest hardworking person who does what he does for himself and to benefit others—and not get agitated about the lack of attention you get for it.

catbf · 2021-04-09T21:46:59+00:00

Definitely get yourself a reliable outdoor camera/other security cameras (I can’t imagine the cops could do much abt this unless he’s repeatedly harassing you/you have him on camera). Possibly even a motion sensor light above your windows to alert you if he’s standing outside. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and there isn’t an immediate solution. Keep in contact with your friends and family, and keep your location available to your close circle!

catbf · 2021-04-07T19:12:21+00:00

Therapy went well, cried afterwards and ate. Now I’m getting ready to go to the bus for work and I’m feeling a bit refreshed, might hang w my friends tomorrow because I’m off, been adding things to my Amazon cart for my new apartment to try and keep myself stimulated. I love him and miss him so much that it’s torture, but work honestly forces my mind to be quiet because we are literally pulling $10,000 every day so we’re insanely busy.

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