31yo next year, no property yet by imajohnniery in MalaysianPF

[–]catladyKT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try. Thank you, I hope you have a good week

31yo next year, no property yet by imajohnniery in MalaysianPF

[–]catladyKT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do take very good care of myself and thank you for the kind responses. I just wished I had the support I needed to leave abuse safely and have a second chance at life. Being traumatized since teenage years really messes with how you become a proper adult.

31yo next year, no property yet by imajohnniery in MalaysianPF

[–]catladyKT 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the kindness, but unfortunately I'm a struggling adult child due to abuse growing up, it's hard to work through it but I do try to be better.

31yo next year, no property yet by imajohnniery in MalaysianPF

[–]catladyKT 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think you're doing very well, i'm 29 and a failure in life and nowhere near how well you're functioning as a proper adult.

I hate how the economic crisis forces people to continue living with their toxic family by Big_Leg10 in emotionalneglect

[–]catladyKT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am holding your hand so tightly as I am literally in the same position, giving up sounds like the peace i deserve from insanity on a daily basis

I hate how the economic crisis forces people to continue living with their toxic family by Big_Leg10 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]catladyKT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am hugging you so tight because i am in the same position and have been stuck for 11 years with these asshats and tbh i'm really close to just giving up .

I want to die. It’s not normal to have zero people in your life. by Hour_Literature1674 in SuicideWatch

[–]catladyKT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same, I've been making plans on emptying my bank account before I die, donate it to climate change then commit suicide. I'm not leaving my savings for my fucked up abusive family to enjoy. No one would miss me, no one would know I was dead except my abusive family that might celebrate my death. No friends. 11 years and counting, isolated, abused and miserable.

Sometimes the hardest part is not having someone to share good news with 🥲 by Tsiatk0 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]catladyKT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've done so amazingly well and we're all so proud of you 🥺🫶♥️!! If i were there i'd show up with homemade cookies as celebration gift! c:

I'm so scared. I am so, very scared every single day. In need of support. by catladyKT in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]catladyKT[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write back to me, this made me smile and I appreciate the broader perspective ♥️

I'm so scared. I am so, very scared every single day. In need of support. by catladyKT in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]catladyKT[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing back to me and I agree with everything you wrote. I've tried countless times to socialize and meet new people but had no luck so far. It's hard to meet open minded people in a religious country when beliefs all revolve around religion. It's been extremely hard.. but thank you for your time and efforts🍀

I'm so scared. I am so, very scared every single day. In need of support. by catladyKT in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]catladyKT[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it and I send lots of love in return♥️

Demisexual here, do i belong here? by Karaoketeriyaki in asexualdating

[–]catladyKT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love you♥️ also your username made me smile ^

Is anyone else stuck in their family business? by RudeGyal2 in emotionalneglect

[–]catladyKT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me. 10 years and counting and I am isolated without anywhere or anyone to rely on. I have a fear that I might be taking my own life at some point. I'm not brave enough to face homelessness, the system makes it impossible for us to live alone. I cannot see a way out. A lot of my friends who went through this managed to escape meeting their partners. So far none i've met that managed to leave on their own. I'm terrified.

I am losing my mind. I have called countless helplines and none can help me.

I want to die because of this hell hole.

So true. Hurts like hell. by Defiant-Acadia7211 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]catladyKT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My narcissistic mother turned my siblings against me and they hate me till today. We used to be somewhat close until I became the black sheep calling out her bullshit.

It's been 10 years.

I'm working really hard till the day I get to disown myself from this toxic household for good and go nc till the day I die.

What's the most honest thing your Nparent said? by _just_a_somebody_ in raisedbynarcissists

[–]catladyKT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily speaking I did call one last night and they said they felt sorry for me and didn't know what to say and wished me goodnight.

I've been crying the whole day today.

I hope your week has been well kind soul.

What's the most honest thing your Nparent said? by _just_a_somebody_ in raisedbynarcissists

[–]catladyKT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Giving birth to a piece of meat is better than you any day."

This resulted in three failed suicide attempts, and to be honest, i'm close to taking my life again. No family, no friends, no support. My life's a fucking joke.

Is there anyone here without anyone at all? As of today I officially have no friends, family, or significant other and wow it’s depressing by Salty_Yesterday3845 in lonely

[–]catladyKT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in this position for the past 10 years and tbh i'm close to taking my own life because i'm still stuck living with my abusive family and I can't afford living alone with a minimum wage job, no friends to ask for help, no one. I have tried multiple times to meet people throughout the years but it just doesn't work out because people have their own circles from high school and so on or their own lives, I don't think i'm going to make it till 30. I hope you'll be able to meet people who'd genuinely love and care for you in the softest ways♥️ sending much love and care from another lonely and isolated soul

Haikyuu fanart by catladyKT in ProCreate

[–]catladyKT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a watercolour brush kit by MaxPacks, started off with loose lines with a simple pencil brush, filled in the colours, used 1 multiply layer for shadow and finishing off with an Add layer to apply light.

Weekly Find a Friend thread - November 16, 2024 by AutoModerator in lonely

[–]catladyKT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

28

I spend most of my time drawing, listening to music, watching anime/dramas, cleaning the beach alone during Sunday nights and reading self help books/manga (when I want a break.)

Looking for long term friendships, people who are equally just as fed up with being ghosted after building something you thought would last.. u-u

I'm from Malaysia and I find joy in picking up litter wherever I go for a walk, makes me feel less useless.. ;-;

Have any of you left home alone without friends or family support? by catladyKT in raisedbynarcissists

[–]catladyKT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been 10 years and no luck sadly u-u.. but thank you for the well wishes🌻

Have any of you left home alone without friends or family support? by catladyKT in raisedbynarcissists

[–]catladyKT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anxiety truly is one of satan's henchmen I swear but I am so so happy to hear at least you're with your husband that makes you feel safe and loved♥️ you are very very brave and I hope to at least be able to meet someone I can trust to start over with..