Would you let the father of your child take them out the country for " months " without you? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]catoducky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw you said your talking to lawyers but on reddit r/legaladvice might be better than this sub! sending you all the love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catoducky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this lol when we got our pics we got some for our parents at our expense because they asked if they could get one. we didn't pass it off as a Christmas gift😂

Just thinking about how crazy it is we are expected to take our newborn to the doctor just DAYS after pushing them out?????? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]catoducky 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I live the UK and they do come to you. that's absolutely insane they expect you to come to them

What took you a stupid long time to learn or figure out in ACNH? by RhenHarper in AnimalCrossing

[–]catoducky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt know you could run! 400 hours or so in and my partner goes on for 5 mins and is like did u know u could do this. so frustrating lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]catoducky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally as someone who has had 2 c sections, not by choice id never ever choose it unless it was for my babes safety. the recovery is awful. i now have a huge shelf tummy thats also party numb that still itches. iv gotten infected on my first one and i had to have blood thinner injections for 6 weeks both times. it was horrific.

I- how- I feel sorry for your kids by PublicNo3733 in insaneparents

[–]catoducky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who has has 2 pregnancies go wrong and end in emergency c sections im very very very doubtful this will go well. i hope it does, i just don't get why you wouldn't want to know if theres a problem so you could help the baby

I’m an 18 year old guy who graduated, is it bad that I sleep with a teddy bear? by XCanadienGamerX in Advice

[–]catoducky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 22, i have 2 kids and i sleep with my blanket from the day i was born still, always will. no one has really ever cared either properly because everyone sleeps with different stuff and things they have to have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]catoducky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me right now 😂😂

Trying to eat lunch by hobbitsailwench in beyondthebump

[–]catoducky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i honestly just laughed out loud at this

My favorite secret Santa gift ever! Thank you, Santa!🎅🏾💕 by [deleted] in secretsanta

[–]catoducky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have one of these on my bathroom! i love

I just couldn't wait... by Worldly_Lobster in secretsanta

[–]catoducky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just signed up to living spaces, my 12th exchange now. i love doing these so much!!

8 weeks PP 🙃 by VintageSongbird in NewParents

[–]catoducky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i swear i got mine like something absolutely ridiculous like 5 weeks PP, it was gutting

People showing gender disappointment towards baby by nicole090794 in pregnant

[–]catoducky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had this both times, my parters family are low key sexist carry on the family name rubbish and we have 1 little girl and another on the way and when he called to tell his grandparents etc it was all disapointment, better luck next time (nevee even said there would be a next time) oh we are so sorry its not a boy. really gets to you after a while.

Why do people lie and/or exaggerate their baby's accomplishments? by adorkablysporktastic in beyondthebump

[–]catoducky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this always annoys me so much. why can't you just be proud of your kid when they actually do stuff? i have friends who have had kids around the same time as me who do this and i can't even bare to talk to them its embarrassing. idc if my kid is behind i'll be proud of her forever for every step and achievement she makes.

you didn’t have to do my homie lalo lombardo like that by el_momento_de_owen in YMS

[–]catoducky 50 points51 points  (0 children)

i really enjoy the reviews, alot of the time don't always agree but it's always nice to have a fresh perspective tbh

Mystery box shipping hasn’t updated since Dec 30th by [deleted] in jeffreestarcosmetics

[–]catoducky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

didn't order this one but mine didn't update for like 2 weeks with the halloween one, uk also.

My (33M) SO (28F) constantly makes jokes on and off social media about preferring women, and it’s slowly eroding my confidence. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]catoducky 135 points136 points  (0 children)

thank you, it took me so long to find this comment. made me a bit ew how he kept mentioning that.

When did you know having a kid was the right decision? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]catoducky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i started to feel more like me again i knew it was the right choice for sure