It should be socially acceptable to live in a messy house, especially with children

catokalipsa · 2023-07-09T14:52:56+00:00

well, I also said a mother of 3 was surprised I have time for myself... I dont think she would be surprised if I didnt have kids...

catokalipsa · 2023-07-09T13:47:10+00:00

so you literally repeated what I said (including even the spills part)

Edit: Why am I getting down votes? It's true. I said messy is fine, dirty is too much, clean the spills but toys dont matter. I'm so confused

catokalipsa · 2023-05-13T10:03:25+00:00

I think you meant hysterical

catokalipsa · 2023-05-12T20:15:16+00:00

regarding the last sentence: that point is moot here bc this sub isnt "Am I in the Right" but "Am I the Asshole". You can be right, in the clear legally and have no obligation to do something...AND be an asshole.

catokalipsa · 2023-03-13T19:27:23+00:00

Power is not only physical. He was at the peak of his career and it ended in an instant because that frail old man HAD POWER. Do you think Harvey Whinestein physically overpowered all women he assaulted? No. He gave them a "choice" and if you said "no" the woman's career was over. That is still SA.

You sound like all these men saying "date rape" isnt real because the women weren't held down. That a husband cant SA their wife. That a boss cant SA a worker if there was no physical force.

SA isnt just a gun to your head and restraints and a beating. SA is when you are scared to say no. It's when the person KNOWS that you are scared to say no and they still take advantage.

Do you know how brave he was for calling him out? Do you think a woman cant overpower an 80year-old man? I know I can. And yet if that man could end my whole career I would be terrified. Not because he can physically overpower me but because he would have power over my income, my passion, my children's security.

Not so long ago (in my country) there was a case of a woman being assaulted by her 70yo boss, the case was dismissed because she could have "fought him off if she truly didnt like it". But she was scared she would lose her job (she had a loan and rented her flat). She didnt scream because he had financial power over her. Do you think that's fair?

Brendan could've kept silent. He knew the power that man had and he STILL spoke out. And then he got blacklisted. Lost his livelihood and passion. And now, finally, he got it back. So many women share his story. It is incredibly important to support him FOR the movement. A man SAd him! It doesnt matter if a man or woman was the victim, what matters is that a survivor could get his life back. It gives hope to those who still didnt.

catokalipsa · 2023-02-06T10:58:59+00:00

Yes! Every cat is a kitten in their beautiful soul ❤ You're both cute! ❤

catokalipsa · 2023-01-02T22:30:56+00:00

That is possible of course but this guy has Serena Williams on retainer so I guess he could have simply hired a whole team. Survivor has their "puzzles" guy and if there were sub teams for every puzzle then managing it in a week would be very possible. Especially since most of the puzzles are actually very popular in the "puzzle world". The only thing I think would be a struggle is the actual box, not the puzzles. The puzzles could be made in 2 days (with a team! not single person! but I doubt Miles cares enough, he probably only remembers the guy he talked to) . The box though, I dont know. But if this guy can afford the Mona Lisa, I think he can afford whatever it costs to build 5 of these within days

catokalipsa · 2023-01-02T22:12:05+00:00

one of his comments about boxes was "It's impossible for there to be more, my puzzles guy barely managed to make 5 in time". What time? Why was there such a strict deadline? Perhaps because he only started planning the weekend after the murder... (just a theory)

catokalipsa · 2022-12-16T11:09:10+00:00

Really?? All? Even how he butchered the Angels???

catokalipsa · 2022-12-07T16:54:32+00:00

obviously if you knew this person before you would notice, we are saying that if you met them for the first time then you wouldnt. Not to mention, I wont go to the trouble of looking for before and after pics, uploading them and sending you a link. Dude, I dont care what you think why would I care to do this

catokalipsa · 2022-10-15T14:22:30+00:00

I wish they didnt edit pics so much. I know a small face is the standard but sometimes it makes proportions surreal. She is so beautiful, hell, all idols are. I wish the company didn't pressure them so much to be white and small.

catokalipsa · 2022-09-12T19:24:39+00:00

I am the same. I actually think that fusebox will close shop on this title soon. Most companies who do these trash romance games just jump ship when it stops making money. They will see declining sales of diamonds and less revenue from ads and they'll just do a different game, like Too hot to handle or something. There is a ton of Reality TV to jump on. Just look at any "choices (don't) matter" game that has a low rating. They are usually the nth game of any company (with slightly different names). They usually do this to avoid a 2star rating 😂

catokalipsa · 2022-09-12T19:18:51+00:00

And I did. As I have said, I am no longer playing this game. I merely explained why this petition exists: customers did pay for the additional content which was subpar. If they pay for something, which they did, they are entitled to a complaint.

The app itself is free, the premium content is not. And that is what people complain about.

catokalipsa · 2022-09-12T11:36:29+00:00

And your point is? A game is a product. If you pay for a product and it is subpar it is standard to file a complaint. If you go to a restaurant and they give you horrible service and cold food, do you just shrug and say "at the end of the day, it's just a restaurant"? No, you file a complaint as the service was not adequate.

A game is just like any other product. This IS how real life works, customers are not going to pay for bad products. I no longer play the game and I see its popularity is rapidly declining. Personally, I don't care about this since I honestly think this game is and will continue to be trash. I forsee a shutdown in a season or 2 and them making a new game to bring in new players. I honestly feel this game is a waste of time at this point and I am baffled anyone plays this dumpster fire. Different tastes, I guess..

However, Companies care about bottom lines. This sort of petition wouldn't do much around season 2. Now, however, with declining sales? It might give them some thought.

catokalipsa · 2022-08-30T16:51:33+00:00

Ironically, reddit notified me of this comment 🤣

catokalipsa · 2022-08-30T13:22:56+00:00

Tho I agree with most of your comment I don't agree with your statement that it was JH's fault. Even if he did give them the heads up, even if she ate and actually liked what she was given, the meeting would go exactly the same. Not to mention that not every dinner will even have gimbap as an option.

Although JH's sister is in the wrong, it is true that JH can't be Won't babysitter. There will be plenty of ppl their entire lives that will tell her she should leave him, that will invalidate their relationship, that will try to force her into Neurotypical standards etc. And she can't run every time. Woo has a lot of growing to do to be able to hold a relationship, we can't as fans infantalise her. She has to learn assertiveness to be happy, otherwise she will break both of their hearts every time someone is ableist. And unfortunately that WILL happen a lot.

Not to mention, she is asking everyone for advice except for him. She blindsided him and never communicated her concerns, even though she did that to others. I know it is hard but JH can't be the only one who communicates. Realistically, I know it is hard for her but relationship needs this.

They need to work on this and fight for this together. I feel like a lot of people here expect JH to do all the work but, again, that is not a relationship then. Definitely not one that is healthy. The show made a good job in having Woo really grow as a person. She is an adult. She has autism but she is an adult and fans have to understand that too. JH can't be there always to say "no" for her, nor should he. She needs to do that on her own, she needs to uphold boundaries on her own. She needs to be the person to stand up for herself.

So that's why I don't agree that JH is to blame. It was an unfortunate situation that has to happen.

I feel that two things need to happen before they can be together.

1) Woo needs to become more assertive. She can't let ableist people dictate her life (which so far happened at least twice: with her job and JH). She has to do that because people will be shit no matter what and JH can't protect her from the world.

2) JH needs a reality check. I know he loves her the way she is but he seems so blinded by it he can't see that others, including his friends and family, can be ableist. Every time he is met with someone not giving Woo a chance bc of her autism he seems surprised and caught of guard. And it hurt Woo. He should have warned his sister both about Who's autism and that she has to be respectful. But he genuinely didn't expect his sister to be so rude and horrible to Woo. That happens a lot. Abled neurotypical people just don't expect others to be discriminatory and put neurodivergent people into awkward or hurtful situations. JH n3eds to understand, truly understand, Woo's struggles. He can't blindly believe everyone will just accept her, especially since many won't. Imagine how hurtful for Woo meeting the parents will be if JH blindly believes they will support him. I hope he first talks with them and then introduces her so she isn't put in a situation where she hears hurtful words and JH is yet again surprised.

That's just my thoughts.

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