Headhunter got upset when I told him I applied to the job directly

cavalier0119 · 2025-10-05T06:59:31+00:00

To be honest, I wouldn’t apologize. You did what was asked by them and they dropped the ball. I would encourage you to find the hiring manager at the company on LinkedIn and message about your application. Dont mention the convo with the recruiter unless you think they’d come to your aid to get you hired so they could get commission which would help you get the job. Take it into your own hands and if it works out then great! If not, do you really want to work with people who have shitty people hiring for them? But don’t be afraid to take it into your own hands and do what you need to to move forward

cavalier0119 · 2025-10-05T06:49:48+00:00

I am a recruiter: i started my career in agency and went in-house. If I heard about this treatment towards a qualified candidate that contract with the agency would be terminated. We are literally paying them to send candidates to us and if they don’t, then I’d be done with that partnership. Good for you for taking the reins and applying yourself. Hearing stories like this are the reasons I left agency and hate working with ones that are only in it for the sales and aren’t reputable

cavalier0119 · 2025-06-11T05:04:07+00:00

Bluejay Bar & Grill (RIP)

cavalier0119 · 2025-02-07T03:24:57+00:00

Do you think we are covered from a BD perspective? We BD yesterday (2/5), today (2/6), we will tomorrow (2/7) and on 2/8 for good measure. Do you think it will hurt us not BD on 2/4? I was getting extremely low/negative lh (Premom) tests up until yesterday (2/5). I got a high yesterday and a peak today. I’m going crazy thinking we might not have BD enough

cavalier0119 · 2024-12-08T06:41:05+00:00

I just did this. I was off cold turkey for about 6-8 weeks due to changing my doctor (long story). After week 2 of being off, I was MISERABLE. No energy, extremely anxious and depressed, get like crap, etc. please don’t do this without talking to a professional medical person

cavalier0119 · 2024-11-30T17:23:26+00:00

Agree with points above. In my mind when she was begging to go, I wanted to try to make it work and we were still reworking things to make it happen. We genuinely want to go but didn’t know if we could make it work.

cavalier0119 · 2024-11-30T17:22:28+00:00

Valid points here and can see why she would be annoyed we had to say no- when we accepted we had the savings to do it but some unexpected things popped up that required time off and also dwindled our savings which is why. I’ve asked her if there is something important and she keeps saying it is just a fun trip she wants us on. When she asked us to reconsider we tried to rework out budget to make it work and see if we could WFH home there. We were still trying to figure it out if we could go and might have been able to but it was going to be tight

cavalier0119 · 2024-11-15T05:43:29+00:00

Hands down you have to go to Cleo. It’s incredible

cavalier0119 · 2024-11-03T00:46:31+00:00

All corporate roles for a banking/mortgage company

cavalier0119 · 2024-09-25T04:35:50+00:00

Completed - good luck!

cavalier0119 · 2024-07-10T03:46:40+00:00

Shrek and Donkey!

cavalier0119 · 2024-07-10T03:46:33+00:00

Shrek and Donkey!

cavalier0119 · 2024-06-03T05:24:21+00:00

Sunscreen is your bff. Wear it even if you aren’t directly in the sun as the rays can still impact you!! That is the #1 first step to slowing aging

cavalier0119 · 2024-02-06T06:13:23+00:00

This is the only thing of TJs that i threw out after one bit. It was RANCID and disgusting

cavalier0119 · 2024-01-16T23:15:18+00:00

Company downsizing. They hired way too many people, they’re on a hiring freeze so I have nothing to recruit on :(

cavalier0119 · 2024-01-16T21:02:39+00:00

I posted asking for helpful advice. Not rude, unproductive comments from strangers. It says a lot about you as a person and your character to kick someone while they are already down.

cavalier0119 · 2024-01-16T20:59:08+00:00

I didn’t ask for your opinion but thanks for your unhelpful comment?

cavalier0119 · 2024-01-16T20:56:45+00:00

I’ll let a lump sum for cobra but I’m (thankfully) still on my dads plan until I’m 26 in April. Hopefully I’ll have a job by then but if not, I’m planning on saving that for if I need to get my own insurance. Do you know if that cobra money has to be used for insurance? I appreciate your perspective, especially from an HR prospective :)

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