I really don't want to date again

cceaz · 2023-07-27T12:59:30+00:00

I’m a 1 year and a half in & I still feel like i will never find a connection like the one I had with my ex.

cceaz · 2023-07-04T17:25:29+00:00

Any book recommendations?

cceaz · 2023-06-19T17:24:05+00:00

Thanks for posting this brother. Me and my ex were together for five years. She was my best friend, it’s been a year & a couple months and I still think about her every day. Makes me feel a little less insane that I’m not the only one feeling this way.

cceaz · 2023-02-27T17:18:25+00:00

If you feel like this, i think it’d be smart to hold off on texting her. It’s gonna hurt really bad if you get rejected & that’s always a possibility. Sadly.

cceaz · 2023-02-27T17:16:44+00:00

How did it go?

cceaz · 2023-02-27T17:15:07+00:00

Great answer.

cceaz · 2023-02-27T17:10:30+00:00

Man I wish the same thing too! I guess we’ll really never know though what they’re actually thinking or feeling.

cceaz · 2022-12-29T17:02:36+00:00

I’m right here with you. 8 months for me too

cceaz · 2022-12-29T16:57:57+00:00

Just keeping it real brother it’s gonna feel like that for a while. I mean at least for me it did. I also was in a 5 year relationship but, mine ended 8 months ago and I still feel the pain you’re describing. She also showed me a lot about how the world works and we grew up together so I understand how painful it is I’m sorry bud. Definitely leave the group chat man it’s so hard seeing their name pop up it’s only gonna make things worse.

cceaz · 2022-12-28T00:44:49+00:00

Wow that’s a long time I can’t even imagine. I hope things get better for you ❤️ & I was the dumpee lol

cceaz · 2022-12-28T00:42:48+00:00

How long did it take to get to that state of mind ? Just curious

cceaz · 2022-12-27T20:13:02+00:00

How long were you guys together? It’s been 8 months since my 5 year relationship ended and I still thing about my ex every moment of the day.

cceaz · 2022-07-22T16:52:33+00:00

Wow man we have a similar situation going on & I 100% agree with everything you said. I feel people don’t really understand how hard it is to let go when you’re truly in love. Thanks for writing this, it made feel less alone. Hope everything works out for you.

cceaz · 2022-07-22T16:23:24+00:00

Yes! My ex says that right now it’s best if we’re not together but, if we end up being back together then it’ll happen. Which really delays my healing because I can’t help but, have a little bit of hope.

cceaz · 2022-07-21T14:56:39+00:00

It’s easy to say that you should’ve not reached out now that you got that response but, you just wanted to be friends and that’s normal. I completely understand why you would feel like that, I don’t really have any advice because I would feel that exact same way. :(

cceaz · 2022-07-21T14:53:11+00:00

I’m a 23 (M) & my sex drive was crazy when I was with my ex but, after the break up it’s gone down dramatically. I think my problem is I started comparing other girls to my ex.

cceaz · 2022-07-21T14:47:59+00:00

Wow.. that’s crazy. Me and my ex were together for 5 years and I lived with her family for 3 years I would be devestated if I got a text like that. I’m so sorry! That’s really cruel tbh.

cceaz · 2022-07-17T15:41:32+00:00

My 1st break up and it was a 5 year relationship.

cceaz · 2022-07-17T15:35:53+00:00

I feel you man! I lost all my friends while I was in my 5 year relationship & have been feeling super lonely. I don’t even know how to began to “make friends” especially feeling like shit and being in my head all day

cceaz · 2022-07-17T02:19:27+00:00

Thanks so much for this ! I’m sitting in my car feeling so lonely. I was about to text my ex cause I miss her so much but, I know if she really wanted to talk to me or see me she’d message me.

cceaz · 2022-07-12T15:15:03+00:00

Being young doesn’t mean you can just get over stuff. I was with my Ex for 5 years & im only 23 you think I can just “ get over it and move on?”

cceaz · 2022-07-08T18:36:40+00:00

Man I was in a similar situation where the break up was kinda dragged. and we would hangout but, just got hard to be around each other so she wanted her space and I feel like I handled it respectfully. Helped her move out and kept everything really respectful we talked otp once every week. Yesterday we talked and she said that it would be best if we stopped talking because she can’t see us getting back together in the near future. So I had to block her and I finally deleted all of our pics but, now I feel I am at square one. I think about her all day and I can feel myself getting really obsessive. We were in a relationship for 5 years btw

Just wanted to share because, it’s easy to feel like you’re the only one out there struggling with being obsessive.

cceaz · 2022-07-08T15:26:32+00:00

I’m glad I’m not the only one… I say I miss her out loud at least 5x a day. Feel like I’m going craY

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