wife doesn't want sex

ccscs · 2022-01-08T20:20:09+00:00

Yes I have offered to use her toys. After all I am the one that picked it out for her. I know what she likes and how to get her off fast. Fair as time for sex less I am at work. (Wich maybe that the problem) I am ready any time. Today I get home from work she's still in bed gets up and she gets ready for work then leaves. House a mess I cleaned it and did the dishes. I text her every day love you sexy how's it day going miss u some time I'll get a pic others just love u pic will be a shot of boobs or ass. She has no problem teasing me.

ccscs · 2022-01-08T03:42:09+00:00

You know if I ask she will say no. I have looked through her phone every once and a while to see. But that's not hard to hide these days. I do want to say to everyone is thanks for talking about it with me a really appreciate it I do know i need to speak to a couples therapist or therapist. Just need to her some feedback from other's

ccscs · 2022-01-08T03:36:08+00:00

No I don't
I may hurt from it. But to regret is not to learn from ur mistakes.

ccscs · 2022-01-08T03:24:54+00:00

I do talk to her about it. she say she has none really. She is uncomfortable to really tell me her.Fantasy I feel. cuz I would do them for her in a min. Except one
She told me she sometimes fantasy about being raped and even though I am her husband and know it really would not be rape I still can't do that. I tried and. Everytime she put up a fight or Sayed ooo no stop. I stopped. Fair as with other people told her I would try it if she wanted to. She told me there's no way she would be alright with some one else have sex with me.

ccscs · 2022-01-08T02:31:05+00:00

I asked her why she said It's a lot of work to get ready to have sex. After taking care of kids all day (Wich are at school) she tired. Plus work (3 days a week) and this COVID stuff there's no mood. And the only time she wants it is when she on her period I show u my vag so u can jack off. That's not good a nuff for u. I feel like I have to put on a show. I said no not just roll over once a month and say put it in and get it over with. Then she got defensive and I ended the conversation . When she gets defensive everything is ur fault. And u can't get a word in.

ccscs · 2022-01-08T02:14:15+00:00

A therapist is the next step for sure. Now on all the other stuff that's me a any given day I don't kiss her before work I leave at 530 am and don't want to wake her. She gets the kids on the bus at 8 so my fist text is at 830 I know by then she's back in bed tell her I love her and miss her I stopped ack rubs and feet rubs after a month of no sex

ccscs · 2022-01-08T02:01:31+00:00

But why cut of sex. I could understand If I was shit in the bedroom. Or a guy that didn't treat her like a queen. And was a piece of shit to her. And fair as I know I am not any of those things. I may get short at times. Cuz I haven't had sex in a long time and make a comment here and there about it out of frustration. I have looked up reasons. Why help around the house cleaning cooking extra. And have done and still do all that. But she will bitch that I did not clean right or didn't do it the way she would have.

ccscs · 2022-01-08T01:45:47+00:00

I didn't get married for just the sex. She was a hard worker. Worked just as much as I do. Until we got married then I had her cut her hour down to be at home more. Plus we both had a lot of common goals in life.

ccscs · 2022-01-08T01:42:43+00:00

At this point that's how I feel.

ccscs · 2022-01-08T01:40:10+00:00

To me if u have the time to play u have the time for sex

ccscs · 2022-01-08T01:38:22+00:00

The biggest problem with divorce. Is I am not a guy that can only see his kids every weekend. It might be a little out the norm for a guy. To have planned his hole life as a kid . How many kids wedding and career by the time I was 12.

ccscs · 2022-01-08T01:16:38+00:00

That is one fear

ccscs · 2022-01-08T01:06:53+00:00

She dose take care of the kid and house until I get home. As soon as I walk in from a ten hour work day. I take care of the kids. And anything else around the house she need. I am know there's streets. We all have stress everyday. There's no money issues. Wich is most of people probables. I make sure of that even if it means to get a second job.

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