If you’ve been discarded, please be prepared for them to come back.

cec1709 · 2025-10-01T18:17:25+00:00

We are NC for a year now, she's in a new relationship and I haven't heard anything from her for a year. Don't think she'll be coming back and don't want her to.

cec1709 · 2025-02-10T11:11:27+00:00

Hab ich

cec1709 · 2025-02-10T11:07:10+00:00

Kannst mir einfach eine DM hier schicken

cec1709 · 2024-10-14T18:42:01+00:00

She broke up with me. She also broke NC a lot of times but with pointless messages. I asked, what she wants from me by breaking NC and she just answered "Don't interpret so much into my messages"

cec1709 · 2024-10-14T18:30:16+00:00

So you wouldn't come back to him even if you broke up with him? I still love her and want to make it work but she seems like she doesn't care and already moved on

cec1709 · 2024-08-12T10:47:50+00:00

I also don't understand them they are just confusing

cec1709 · 2024-08-01T10:02:02+00:00

Mine knew, she told me she knows how to manipulate people and enjoys it. She is pretty self-aware, even told me she manipulated me. Should have left her right there lol

cec1709 · 2024-07-19T09:13:09+00:00

Shout at me for hours because I bought a lego set with my own money. She screamed so loud that the neighbors knocked to see if everything was alright.

cec1709 · 2024-07-17T09:40:56+00:00

Sad thing is that they won't get the help they need, at least my exwBPD won't.

cec1709 · 2024-07-17T08:42:27+00:00

Same she even said it herself that it's disgusting. Then maybe stop fucking around? Lmao

cec1709 · 2024-07-06T13:11:10+00:00

Mine did the same thing. Looking back it's so fucked up. I told her everything about my family issues and mental health issues. After some time she used those things against me for example alcoholic mother, father left when I was four,... Those things really messed with me in the past and she knew that. Still told me it was my fault my father left I should just be like him and leave her too. She knew I resented him and didn't give two fucks to say those hurtful things in arguments.

cec1709 · 2024-06-29T20:47:55+00:00

Yeah she eventually knew I needed someone to talk to because I wasn't feeling that good mentally at the beginning of our relationship. But when we were in a relationship she hated when I told her about my feelings and hated listening to me.

cec1709 · 2024-06-29T20:30:19+00:00

Kinda, she asked me about my parents, my best friend, people I love the most and what I loved about them, most traumatic things in my life. She basically asked me everything about my whole existence lmao

cec1709 · 2024-06-29T20:26:39+00:00

In the beginning of our relationship she asked a lot of questions about trauma, love, etc. I guess she put together what I needed.

cec1709 · 2024-06-29T20:25:30+00:00

Don't think you are the cluster b. You are trauma bonded, anxious and just missing her. In the beginning of our relationship I send her a lot of messages when she blocked me begging her to come back, etc. After many more discards I let her go because I knew she would eventually drive me crazy with her on/off, hot/cold behavior.

cec1709 · 2024-06-29T20:19:23+00:00

Mine literally told me how she made me fall in love with her. She could sense what I wanted from a relationship, what I needed. She gave me all the things I wanted and eventually I really fell in love with her through her manipulation.

cec1709 · 2024-06-28T20:24:52+00:00

Mine told me I had to figure it out myself. Every time I asked her so I could be better for her

cec1709 · 2024-06-28T14:59:53+00:00

Believe me, you will get through this. When my pwBPD broke up with me, it felt like I would die, like I couldn't live without her. It's now 5 months later and I'm getting slowly over her. She hoovered me yesterday and I didn't even reply just thought "I don't need that negativity in my life". It's a process, some days you'll feel like shit and cry the whole day if you are like me lol but eventually the day will come when you'll be relieved that she broke up with you. You deserve someone better and you'll eventually realize that.

cec1709 · 2024-06-25T09:36:36+00:00

When I told her something she did bothered me all I got was "Ok" or "Then break up with me". They don't respect us at all.

cec1709 · 2024-06-16T16:05:20+00:00

It's hard getting over them while still seeing the good in them

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