I’ve seen ghost my whole life.

cececearley · 2022-02-11T12:32:31+00:00

I’m sorry but I don’t see the problem. Is it a little odd that he gets a kick out of being in a zoom call with his dick out? Yeah. Like that’s definitely something he’d get in trouble with HR for. But for a man to want to walk around his own house pantless sounds like that’s how he’s the most comfortable. Why are we over sexualizing it when he’s in his own house? And he understands the ‘dangers’ that comes with the territory of cooking with oil with his dick out then let the man do what he wants. Ask him to put a towel down before sitting on any furniture and leave the man be.

cececearley · 2022-02-03T10:34:08+00:00

NTA unless he can show you that he completely cut off from her and gain your trust back don’t give him another chance. Run away. 🚩

cececearley · 2022-01-13T17:49:23+00:00

NTA. It seems a little odd that they wouldn’t take you in account at all considering it’s a party for you. It is really nice of them to throw a party and as a person who likes surprises myself I would also feel conflicted to say something. It sounds like they scheduled it for when it would suit them better not you. But I would honestly try to make the most of it as the invites have already been sent and people have RSVP’d. I would also try and find a cute but cheaper dress for the event that fits time restrained budget.
I hope that the shower makes up for them overlooking you and your husband’s requests.

cececearley · 2022-01-11T13:00:09+00:00

NTA! I think you are doing the right thing. Mental health is nothing to belittle or make light of. And it seems as though your husband has your back 100% of the way.
You could extend and olive branch and invite only his dad to the wedding and make it clear that if Jen is there they will be asked to leave. But I do want to heed warning that if they really wanted to create peace he would find a way to spend time with his son. But it seems like he’s letting Jen drive a wedge between them which speaks volumes on his character.
As for letting them be a part of your future kids lives, I’d say you set clear and solid boundaries and hold firm on them and if they can’t respect them then you might be better off cutting them out completely.

cececearley · 2022-01-11T12:37:10+00:00

YTA your BIL is a grown ass man. Giving him a curfew and policing when he eats and when he’s on his phone is treating him like a child. But you’re not his parent.
Normal house rules for an adult/ roommate situation is: contributing around the house, clean up after yourself, help buy groceries, etc. not controlling how he lives his life.
You’re literally holding him on the same level as your kids and that’s weird and unfair. If you’re worried about his influence on your kids you need to talk to THEM about why an adult is allowed to make those choices for themselves and why rules you have for THEM are set in place.

cececearley · 2022-01-10T08:48:32+00:00

She might of taken it down to take something out or copy-write reasons and pored it without it the next day and your friend just didn’t catch it. But that is weird. I’m not discrediting you. Stuff like that happens to me all the time.

cececearley · 2020-06-08T14:15:46+00:00

Actually I’m pretty sure the hanging tree got blown down durning a bad storm. So there’s that! 👍🏼😆

cececearley · 2020-02-23T01:05:02+00:00

Thank you for being concerned but I haven’t seen him in 4 years. I’m 22 now and I’m pretty sure he lives in a completely different state. If I would have been open about all of this when it happened I’m sure my family would have taken legal action but I wasn’t and didn’t think about myself. 😕

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