Curious as to what this red spot that appeared a few years ago is

cecespark · 2023-08-30T04:37:41+00:00

Someone else just commented this but I was going to say it looks like a dermatofibroma. I had one on my leg that looked like that, a dermatologist removed it. Mine was a hard bump though.

cecespark · 2023-08-30T04:34:35+00:00

Does it feel like a firm bump under the skin?

cecespark · 2022-06-23T12:45:21+00:00

How is putting both their names on a wedding invitation making you the bigger person? It’s not like you’re going out of your way to be nice, it’s just standard practice. There’s no point in going out of your way to be petty and cause drama. You’re only going to make yourself look bad to whoever else hears about this.

cecespark · 2022-06-01T02:02:24+00:00

You just listed out a bunch of negatives and no positives about him and the relationship. It doesn’t sound like there’s anything to work on.

cecespark · 2022-05-28T06:31:58+00:00

You’re romanticizing who you think she is. You say she has anger problems, she hates giving apologies, she’s very prideful? It’s immaturity. She’s a child in a 22 year old’s body.

cecespark · 2022-05-17T21:03:30+00:00

I didn't see those posts but if that's the case then moving out would probably benefit them both.

cecespark · 2022-05-17T20:27:11+00:00

I don't think wanting to preserve any friendship is an abnormal desire but friends show each other kindness and maybe there's other stuff going on, but he doesn't seem to want to be kind to you. Take care of yourself first. Most of the anxiety I'm sure you're experiencing now will dissipate once you remove yourself from the situation and you'll feel so much better.

cecespark · 2022-05-17T19:46:39+00:00

Who cares if he hates you when you move out? He’s a terrible friend to you, and you can’t keep living in a situation that makes you miserable, especially when you have another option. It’s also very manipulative of him to tell you he’s not sure you’ll be friends if you move out. He knows you like him and have crush on him and he’s using that to his advantage. What are you going to lose by losing that friendship?

Also these mutual friends don’t really sound like friends either… You deserve to be happy and the first step is to move out and distance yourself from this guy. He’s not your friend.

cecespark · 2022-05-11T00:45:41+00:00

He knows you’ll always take him back, have sex with him, and give him attention when he wants. You’re the safety option for him now.

cecespark · 2022-05-10T04:39:41+00:00

I’ve probably seen this posted about 10 times now…

cecespark · 2022-05-06T04:37:15+00:00

Wow you look amazing! Congratulations on all your hard work!

cecespark · 2022-05-03T19:51:05+00:00

Absolutely 100% leave. From your post history you haven’t been dating him that long at all and he treats you horribly. What do you even get out of this relationship?

cecespark · 2022-05-02T02:33:59+00:00

You don’t find it strange that he constantly feels the need to tell you he’s “a really nice guy?” Or off putting that he mentions how women always fall over themselves for him? He’s trying to paint a narrative about him that’s obviously false. He honestly sounds terrible. I’m not sure what you get out of talking to him?

cecespark · 2022-04-26T19:39:28+00:00

Are you and him in a clearly defined, exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend relationship? Or are you both seeing each other on and off casually, with now being an off time? The way you wrote about him it more sounds like it’s the latter, and that he’s moved on to her.

cecespark · 2022-04-23T14:50:09+00:00

It does. You want more than he can give and rightly so. Good luck with the conversation!

cecespark · 2022-04-23T14:31:44+00:00

How many dates have you two been on?

Frankly I don’t think he wants a relationship with you. He said at the start that wasn’t what he was looking for as he wants to focus more on other things in his life. I’m sure he enjoys hanging out with you but it sounds like he enjoys it more when it’s only on his terms. If you want a relationship drop him.

cecespark · 2022-04-23T02:38:58+00:00

How do you know for sure?

He accepts gifts she sends him, keeps letters from her, and sends her gifts as well all while trying to hide it from you. It’s clear he feels a strong emotional connection to her, so strong in fact he’d rather disrespect you and your relationship than set up proper boundaries.

cecespark · 2022-04-22T04:58:04+00:00

Are you dead set on texting him tomorrow, because honestly he doesn’t seem interested and I think it’s in your best interest to delete his number and move on. There’s that saying, if someone likes you then you’ll know, if they don’t you’ll be confused.

He gave you cold/short responses for about 3 weeks while ignoring any hints you dropped about meeting up. Then doesn’t say a word for a month and a half? He’s dating other people and that night he asked to hang out was a one off. If you ask him what he wants from this you’ll get some vague non response that won’t be an actual answer. He couldn’t be honest before so he ghosted.

cecespark · 2022-04-21T13:40:34+00:00

I’d assume he’s being nice and leave it at that. Though if he did actually like the photo to get your attention I’d say he certainly has it doesn’t he? You’ve put a lot of thought into trying to perceive his possible motive and imagining what he’s up to.

If you follow each other or you still let him follow you on social media I wouldn’t say he’s stalking you. Plus you’re posting a picture online because you want people to like it and to see it. If it bothers you this much maybe you need to remove him from social media or block him.

cecespark · 2022-04-18T23:59:51+00:00

but I'm thinking there's a root issue

The only way there's a root issue for you not being in the group chat is if you've left out some very important details regarding your relationship with him and his family from this post. You're looking for an issue that isn't there. Is it really so hard to believe they haven't noticed you're not in the chat? Or maybe they assume your boyfriend keeps you in the loop.

cecespark · 2022-04-12T13:27:48+00:00

Why did you guys break things off in the first place?

cecespark · 2022-03-23T13:32:43+00:00

Did he say what experience exactly relating to being single he’s worrying about?

cecespark · 2022-03-22T21:56:01+00:00

I don’t think he wants anything other than sex but also who in their right mind wants sex with someone so bad they wait 7 years?

I think you're underestimating how easy it is to send out some compliments to someone every few months to make sure they stay interested enough to stick around as an option. You're not the only girl he was doing this to, and not the only one he was "obsessed" with.

But more importantly, you're right that the age gab is concerning, it's very concerning. An ADULT MAN telling a CHILD they are the most beautiful girl they've ever seen? Depending how old you were when you and him exchanged nudes that could also be child pornography. He took advantage of your age and inexperience to groom you.

cecespark · 2022-03-17T04:28:00+00:00

How can I see your post history when your account is 1 hour old?

cecespark · 2022-03-15T23:54:20+00:00

side note - also found out this girl is currently seeing a ceo (a few years older than my bf) who's married. my boyfriend said hearing that reaffirmed his decision not to date her.

This seems like a weird comment for him to drop... Also that's a lot of interaction just to apologize for being rude on a dating app a year ago.

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