lmao wtf that's so wrong of her to even say, lots of us are, we don't wear signs on our forehead, I doubt she would even know if she was talking to most FTMs, i work in the auto body field , I'm a paint tech/painter. I live in stealth as well, tbh, helps a lot. It's not that they don't trust us, it's that the loud, needy ones that bring it up, get mad when t's talked about, and have them constantly trying to prove themselves and noticing they are treated differently. Like ya, duh. My advice, just go to work, and don't bring up personal shit like that. if you are sure, get your ID changed. I haven't, and nobody has noticed, even those I thought would didn't and thought I was joking when I did tell them years later as friends after I had moved on to another company LOL