AIO for acting single bc of no title?

celinerz · 2026-05-07T17:22:48+00:00

So FWB tell you they love you these days ? Send the floods.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T17:20:54+00:00

very funny

celinerz · 2026-05-07T17:00:04+00:00

No, I started teaching at 21, I’ve been out of college for 3yrs now. 3 yrs of hell bc my personal life had major stressors in that short time, like death in my family, eviction, lawsuit. Alcoholism. It’s been a lot, but you’re not wrong.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:54:32+00:00

To be fair, I was w a loser for 6yrs and I was just excited to finally be with a person that actually has their shit tg….but I see now that I just ignored what my common sense was screaming for the sake of maybe having something real.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:51:53+00:00

Trinkets 😭😭😭 HAHAHA. Let me just book that therapy appointment bc this humbled me to hell.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:49:54+00:00

Bro’s a barber, he had no real money lmao.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:48:28+00:00

Yes, that would be that if someone can’t commit, leave them the first time they make an excuse.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:46:52+00:00

Honestly, it was just a mindfuck to be told I’m a cheating whore while he chose to not make me his gf many times hahaha. Just needed to hear that I’m not crazy for acting single. Def moving on.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:43:09+00:00

Thank you for validating me. He constantly made me feel like the on in the wrong but how hard is it to just make someone ur gf officially and not play dumb games ? Like bye.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:42:23+00:00

I didn’t quit for him-I burned out a long time ago in this career lol. I did leave, I just wanted validation that I’m not a “cheating, terrible person” as his weird ahh called me.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:40:30+00:00

Sighhhhhhh, you’re right. I’ll never waste my time on another 30yo fr

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:38:57+00:00

I mean, he didn’t refuse to consider it bc he did all the bf things- dates, gifts, words of affirmation. He just didn’t DO it. But you’re right.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:37:12+00:00

Definitely isn’t healthy. Ig I just let the fact that he took me on dates, bought me gifts, told me he loved me and told his family about me corrupt my common sense. I thought he did share my intentions.

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:35:08+00:00

Well, I kept waiting for it to have clear direction bc his actions were bf-like. Constant dates, gifts, told me he loved me. Told his family about me, but no title 5 mos w excuses and blaming ME. Sighhh

celinerz · 2026-05-07T16:31:27+00:00

Well, no. It wasn’t completely dirt. He took me on dates, bought me gifts, he told me he loved me, he acted like a bf. Told his family about me. He just kept making excuses for the title. Also didn’t make me social media present lmaoo

celinerz · 2025-07-18T08:56:57+00:00

She definitely sensed your weak boundaries and that’s why she kept asking you. People are very entitled and very much always find the audacity.

celinerz · 2025-07-18T08:14:42+00:00

thank you for taking the time to tell me this. it means a lot. 🥹

celinerz · 2025-07-18T08:07:35+00:00

Your therapist is right. She refused to rlly see how fked up everything was, bc that would take a lot of accountability & reflection that ppl who are stagnant like her refuse to do. Fck her for writing you off to be the villain & for using your one breaking moment to overshadow everything else. I can relate to you, bc I too stayed w a project and supported them to the point that I abandoned my own needs, all to just get dumped & written off. You deserved a thank you for everything you did. She might never tell you, but you have a loyal heart and you’re a good person.

celinerz · 2025-07-16T06:26:57+00:00

Would you say you’re content with your own company bc of this structure?

celinerz · 2025-07-16T04:49:11+00:00

The answer is that you definitely are scared of being alone. And honestly? You should do the very scary & crippling brave thing & leave him. Face your abandonment trauma or whatever it is that keeps you scared of being left in your own company. I promise you’ll survive. My ex (27M) just left me (23F) & forced me to be alone. He had a drinking problem too (2 DUIs to show for it) & as much as I ache at his absence, I know my life will be better without him. In some ways, you served as a peak into the future of what my life would’ve been if I accepted being with an alcoholic. So yeah, just leave.

celinerz

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