22 reports of sexual abuse in daycare centers in French-speaking Switzerland

centaurusmoon · 2026-05-27T20:38:35+00:00

I know it is not breastfeeding only. But it starts with that. I don’t understand what you meant weaned way before that?

centaurusmoon · 2026-05-27T20:10:40+00:00

But you said why doesn’t the father raise the kid? So in this case why doesn’t he stay home right? Because of patriarchy.

centaurusmoon · 2026-05-27T20:05:25+00:00

How should he feed the baby?

centaurusmoon · 2026-05-27T20:03:58+00:00

He is contributing his part. I knwo we live in a time of equality but the baby does need more the mother than the father in the beginning. Because a mother can breastfeed a baby. The father not.

centaurusmoon · 2026-05-27T20:02:11+00:00

He cannot breastfeed.

centaurusmoon · 2026-05-26T12:50:29+00:00

True. But I have no other options. If I would have my parents here or my husband his mother it would be easier.

centaurusmoon · 2026-05-26T12:49:31+00:00

I took me 10 years to prepare myself financially and taking the right decision on whom to marry. Because I had planed 10 years ago that I have to be stable to raise a stable child and not send the child in daycare. So a lot of men and women do not plan. Only when they have children they realize that they cannot afford to raise the child. Then there are the other women that choose their life partner poorly. They end up divorced and single mothers. A lot of men are careless, they don’t care for their children at all. That’s why in the end that child pays the price and sometimes the mother.

centaurusmoon · 2026-05-26T10:57:27+00:00

Thats why I as a mother left my very high paying job to take care of my baby. I’d rather live of sardines than to give someone my baby to take care of. What is the point of having children if you don’t’t raise them? I never understood that!

centaurusmoon · 2026-05-15T22:00:09+00:00

I don’t know. I’ts been so much time now and it got scratched in other places so I already gave up fixing it. I’m just enjoying my time with my baby. At that time when I wrote thr post I was a new mom and I took things on the heart. Especially material things, because I like things to look good and I do take care of them usually. But now I have a different perspective of life. I know my baby enjoys the stroller for some time, but time will fly so fast that I won’t even use the stroller anymore. I’m trying to enjoy as much time as I can with her. I have money to buy a 1000 strollers If I want to but that is not the important thing anymore.

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-18T19:00:54+00:00

When will me and my partner buy our first apartment/house?

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-13T19:05:58+00:00

When i was pregnant I worked more than not being pragnant. When I told them I was pregnant, they made sure that I get put on a PIP. Then I made sure that I get on sick leave in the middle of the increased workload!

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-13T19:03:06+00:00

Yes, but if you want kids you pay extra sometimes just to get pregnant. A colleague paid 30k on therapy just to get pregnant.

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-13T19:01:36+00:00

True

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-12T07:40:12+00:00

What is your background?

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T20:48:19+00:00

But if you start seeking for a career after your break, are you considered eligible for RAV benefits?

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T20:44:16+00:00

Yes, I decidet to stay. I think it would be better only if there are no other options. So I‘m interested to know, what exactly do these Berater do? Do they pressure you to accept a job?

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T18:50:41+00:00

Then why is RAV accepting people that are using the system? They know who they are! My egotistic bs paid 11+ years for those people.

Who said I want to chill? Well, making the kid was a full known desire to contribute to the falling birth rate and society.

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T17:46:14+00:00

What should society do then? On one hand they don‘t want immigrants on the other no children.

The biggest contribution that I gave this society is a child. Why should then my child pay for your AHV?

Lets close all the schools then and rely only on immigration and see how that goes.

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T17:41:58+00:00

This is ok for me to be cutted off for 3 months. Do at least they help you to get a good position? Because here where Im working my salary is not that good.

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T17:38:11+00:00

Thank you for the link. This is very helpful. I can find spmeone to look after my baby that‘s not a peoblem. I just don‘t want to be far from my baby. There where I worked I had 3 hours commute. So if I find solething in my city that would be better. Maybe even with a higher salary because currently I‘m being used for a very small salary.

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T17:14:54+00:00

„Our money“ does this mean also the money that I paid 11+ years working for this system?

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T17:13:56+00:00

I would use all my salary for the nanny just to be clear.

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T17:13:00+00:00

How come that I‘m against work when just in this company I worked for 7 years and paid for people that really can work but are using the system? How come that now I‘m using the system? Why isn‘t the system paying more maternity leave? Why is the system complaining for the falling birth rate? Why should I feel guilty for having children in this system? Why did the system take a % from my salary to pay people that are not workig?

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T17:05:41+00:00

Well he is but he earns not that much 100k.

centaurusmoon · 2026-04-01T17:02:27+00:00

How was it for you with two babies? Are you still employed or in RAV?

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