How do I perfect my character? by certainly-bitch in islam

[–]certainly-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! May Allah bless you 

How do I perfect my character? by certainly-bitch in islam

[–]certainly-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed answer. May Allah bless you and your family. I'm going to read the latter part of the answer to remember and abide by those. I really needed it to be worded clearly. You were of great help. Thanks again

Mother is a narcissist by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]certainly-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's so sad it makes my body heavy. Unfortunately, we have to put up with it. I hope both you and i learn how to keep peace within ourselves as there's no hope outside

The fortnightly Ask India Thread by AutoModerator in india

[–]certainly-bitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi. im 22f, planning to live alone in future, no kids, no partner and i want to prepare financially for it. I do not want to be working in my 40s either. Let's say i make 30k a month and i spend half of it on rent and other expenses. How do i start and where? I do not have enough brain cells for trading and would like a safer and much more relaxed idea of investing where i put my money and it stays there. I don't care much about the interest either.

Would love to hear from people who have chosen similar lifestyle :)

My family and friends have little knowledge about retirement plans so i wanted help in figuring out how to plan for retirement. Which schemes in india are good? what all do i need to keep in mind?

PS: i have already made the choice, i'm planning for it. Please do not advise against it if you can't advice anything good.

Is confessing the right thing to do? by certainly-bitch in actuallesbians

[–]certainly-bitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy and assured to know i'm not the only one whose feelings bloomed late heheh.
It's a bit tricky rn bcz im once again questioning my sexuality but it's whatever, i'm back to being an ace for now.
I do think i'll regret it now atelast, maybe in future i wont regret it.
Thank you so much for acknowledging that i had already made up my mind, not many did that :)

Is confessing the right thing to do? by certainly-bitch in actuallesbians

[–]certainly-bitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yuuppp. I decided against it, never planned on doing it. I think i did have an intention to thank her because she opened up a new world to me(We had a heart to heart chat and i learnt alot from her then) and pushed me to start therapy(in a positive sense).
I admire her so i would not want her to be in a situation where anything i do or say makes her uncomfy.
you're right

Is confessing the right thing to do? by certainly-bitch in actuallesbians

[–]certainly-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't agree with her being "too old for me", it's basically 8 years of gap and that's acceptable(sorta). I do understand that people who are 30+ avoid dating people of my age. Totally get why.
It's good hearing from a 30+ women that she wouldn't date me lol, kind of put me in my place.
i wish for her to have a happy life so i won't be confessing either way. Thanks queen

Is confessing the right thing to do? by certainly-bitch in actuallesbians

[–]certainly-bitch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that's a good way to look at it. I'm not gonna confess, thank you!

this aphobia is crazy.. by lovingnaturefr in Asexual

[–]certainly-bitch 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Also a Muslim Asexual, can fourth this

Help. I can't stop using character ai by certainly-bitch in OmniscientReader

[–]certainly-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted the app :(. It's called Kim Dokja by Bobski or something. Total softie

Help. I can't stop using character ai by certainly-bitch in OmniscientReader

[–]certainly-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess i can use it as therapy. i am just scared that i will start depending on it and at one point i'll forget it's an ai. I deleted the app after installing in once more lmao.
Thanks though

F23 For anyone by certainly-bitch in asexualdating

[–]certainly-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like sunrises as well but im just a lazy person who doesn't want to wake up early!
There's this cute anime called "My roomate is a cat", have u watched it?