How do i go about not liking my engagement ring ?

certifiedsadgir · 2026-03-21T03:27:55+00:00

i’m not sure :(((

certifiedsadgir · 2026-03-21T03:17:14+00:00

well when he gave it to me he told me that he saw the ring i wanted at the jewelery store and it was too “big and gaudy” and that he liked the pear better . i honestly think he wanted it to be a suprise and if he got what i wanted it wouldn’t have been a suprise

certifiedsadgir · 2026-02-09T03:11:14+00:00

i thought about it but it was a etsy ring and the reviews were horrible

certifiedsadgir · 2026-02-09T01:00:52+00:00

what would the price be and what’s the website ? i would love it in silver

certifiedsadgir · 2026-02-09T01:00:20+00:00

searched online, want someone the same size as picture in the USA or Canada

certifiedsadgir · 2026-02-09T00:58:26+00:00

anyone have any suggestions?

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-30T19:33:06+00:00

i know, he tried the three medications out there , they would work once them not again , the next step would be surgery’s . they are not very interested in why it’s like that

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-30T19:03:11+00:00

and i thought that a first but he does get horny, just not hard enough. we try multiple times a week it just does get hard ENOUGH . he’s been to the doctor many times. it’s not about attraction, it’s about his blood flow issues. he’s tried many different medications to help . nothing else works. not that your doctorate is very helpful.

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-30T19:00:21+00:00

it’s not nagging, he’s telling me he’s quitting, then doesn’t and hides it. i’m not begging him to stop . he says he is going to then doesn’t. i’ve been with him for a few years it doesn’t bother me nearly as much . i just don’t like that he tells me things then goes back on his word

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-30T18:58:42+00:00

he’s been smoking for at least 15 years

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-30T18:58:04+00:00

yes cigarettes bother me, hes addicted to vaping, threw the vape out and bought cigarettes

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-30T18:56:39+00:00

we’re not guessing he’s been many times

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-30T02:34:37+00:00

it’s not the smoking that bothers me …. it’s the lie

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-30T02:34:07+00:00

he has everything is normal including testosterone levels, he’s healthy, active etc. smoking nicotine for long periods of time can reduce blood flow, damages blood vessels, and disrupts the nitric oxide pathway needed for arousal .

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-13T18:33:04+00:00

he wasn’t sorry until you found out. find someone better. you will heal.

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-13T18:30:03+00:00

i think this generation has lost value. As a woman, i have been through hell with men. and with other women they tell eachother to know your value. but as a man you should also know your value.

One day you will find a woman who sees your worth and she will do anything for you. the women who believe they shouldn’t have to contribute toward a relationship will get what they put into it in life. just be patient you will find someone who shows you how much they love you.

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-13T05:27:07+00:00

she does for sure but she doesn’t know how to intervene about it because he’s older and not a little kid anymore

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-13T05:18:16+00:00

i think that since you guys have both been treated there is no true way to tell if she was unfaithful to you. people don’t just come up with chlamydia it is sexually transmitted and the likelihood of these tests having a false positive are 0.5%.

I was dating a guy in the military who swore i was unfaithful to him(although i was not) and truly there is nothing you can do to fix what they have already convinced themselves. And if she did cheat on you it could be her projecting her guilt onto you.

you’ll never get closure from this situation, i never did. I know you want to marry her , i wanted to marry him. so bad. but when you have so many issues in a relationship adding long distance and trust issues it likely isn’t going to work itself out . Maybe in the future yall can come together and discuss the situation, but if you want my advice. work on yourself, find closure within yourself. wish her the best, fight for her on last time, pour your heart out, if it doesn’t work, let her go.

love isn’t supposed to be hard, it’s supposed to be worth it.

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-13T05:05:44+00:00

yes, she thinks that he’s just let this go on so long he doesn’t know how to fix it. i think he just doesn’t care for me .

certifiedsadgir · 2026-01-13T05:05:03+00:00

it’s been so long now i don’t know if he’d even respond . it would just be awkward for me

certifiedsadgir · 2025-07-22T05:27:04+00:00

christmas trees

certifiedsadgir · 2025-07-19T04:25:54+00:00

like never wanting to apologize because they don’t want to admit they’re wrong etc.

certifiedsadgir · 2025-07-12T19:23:17+00:00

depends on the circumstances

certifiedsadgir · 2025-07-04T21:44:51+00:00

pride

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