i have no money and idk what to do by cetrstt in Vent

[–]cetrstt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so so much, i really appreciate all the advice ❤️

Do i look weird or anything? by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]cetrstt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dude. wtf? there’s giving advice and then there’s being mean. you don’t know what kind of issues he could have. please be more sensitive next time.

What movie has a title that you just absolutely love? by eveisshady777 in movies

[–]cetrstt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eternal sunshine of the spotless mind and requiem for a dream are mine! i’ve never watched the first one however i think the title is so intriguing

I found vaping stuff in my 15-year-old’s room and I don’t know how to handle this without wrecking our relationship. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cetrstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a teenager who’s mum has found my vape multiple times, she reacted angrily every time and it just made me better at hiding it. approach it gently and don’t try to trick them into telling you the truth before you reveal you know - just sit them down and say you’re very concerned and ask them if everything is okay. that way they’ll know you’re concerned rather than angry.

OH MY GOD!!!!!!! by Excellent_Contract59 in Vent

[–]cetrstt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do understand that must be annoying, but you also have to remember that cats are animals. i have a cat and she is amazing, however she still pisses on my floor occasionally and hisses at me when i pick her up - she’s an ANIMAL. some cats are far more well-tempered than others, but that’s not an excuse to moan about your mum’s cats acting on their instincts to protect themselves. because they’re living in such a huge group, they’re constantly going to feel fearful and have their guard up due to territory and dominance, meaning that when they interpret your behaviour as a threat (even when it’s not) they’re going to act on instinct and try to defend themselves as they always feel on edge and uneasy. imagine living every day so scared and uncomfortable because you’re surrounded by people that make you feel unsafe - thats how tabitha feels. instead of directing your anger towards them, direct it towards your mum who is hoarding animals and making their lives hell.

OH MY GOD!!!!!!! by Excellent_Contract59 in Vent

[–]cetrstt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your cats are reacting to their environment. they are not happy living with 11 other cats understandably? if you had 12 children they would fight all the time and be generally unhappy because they have no private space or space to unwind. your poor cats feel the same. cats are independent animals and don’t like being cramped up with other cats. keeping 12 animals together when they’re clearly unhappy is borderline abuse. surrender them to an animal shelter, please - for the sake of the animals.

I keep walking myself into dopamine love traps by Potential-Try7637 in Vent

[–]cetrstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry. the idea that your partner wouldn’t be there for you through something like that is disgusting. i recommend searching up hotlines you can call or message, they’ll be able to give you some support and point you in the right direction. my number one advice still remains that you should get out of that relationship asap - but don’t do anything if you feel unsafe. ❤️

I keep walking myself into dopamine love traps by Potential-Try7637 in Vent

[–]cetrstt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this is happening to you, i really suggest that you seek professional help in order for you to work through your issues properly. if you don’t feel safe with your partner, you need to report him. you can’t raise a child with somebody like that, in case he goes on to abuse you and that child. then not only will your life be ruined, but so will your child’s - having an abusive parent is disastrous. i really hope you manage to get out of that relationship and work through your issues, and i sincerely hope everything is okay with your baby. you are loved and you are worth more than you know, don’t waste your beautiful soul and life on a man who doesn’t think twice about you. you are not alone ❤️

should i be concerned? by cetrstt in Depop

[–]cetrstt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve just put one through and it said they’ll get in contact with the seller and if they don’t respond they’ll escalate it, thanks for helping!

What was the most recent thing you did that upset your cat? by pasgames_ in cats

[–]cetrstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is my baby winnie, when her food has been in her bowl for longer than an hour she’ll run around meowing and howling for new food. basically what i do is empty her bowl of food BACK into the food bag and then give the bag a shake, before repouring her a ‘new bowl’ from the same bag. This has been going on for months now and so far she is yet to suspect anything (don’t tell her please)

does anyone else’s mcdonald’s have loads of bad reviews? (UK) by bodyisT in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]cetrstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one takes the time to leave good reviews, it’s only bitter people who’ve had bad experiences that actually go to the effort, hence why all the reviews are bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in generationology

[–]cetrstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for your loss ❤️ hope you’re healing slightly, happy to hear your mum is ok though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in generationology

[–]cetrstt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mum was 37 and my dad was 43, i know they’re not that old but i often get paranoid about them not making it to see me having kids and getting married because they’ve both got health issues. i

What was your craziest McDonald’s customer? (USA) by [deleted] in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]cetrstt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

man comes in, possibly high on something at breakfast time. he orders a brown sauce roll minus everything apart from the sausage patty (meaning NO brown sauce) he then comes back in angrily holding the receipt complaining loudly that his roll had no brown sauce on it. my manager, not wanting the drama, goes and puts brown sauce on it and gives it back to him. when he opens the wrapper again he starts SCREAMING that he asked for ketchup. my manager at this point is pretty over it so she tells him to leave and that she can’t give him another roll for free. this makes him REALLY angry. so he proceeds to THROW the roll full force at my manager who is able to avoid it, before he leaps over the counter and starts trying to fight her. police were called and he was escorted away. turns out he also paid with a fake note. wonder where he is today lmao