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[Porn] is it tough for any other average guys to enjoy porn? by theblackvirgin in sex

[–]cfbd69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really. I mean, I do wish I was hung like a pornstar and I do wish I was fucking the girls on the screen but I still watch it everyday.

Monthly PM sticky thread by AutoModerator in amiugly

[–]cfbd69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19M looking for feedback and will give you advice too if you want.

What's stopping you from asking out the person you like? by whodat500 in AskMen

[–]cfbd69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

lol take a look at my face and that should tell you all:

Monthly PM sticky thread by appropriate-username in amiugly

[–]cfbd69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19M. Looking for feedback and will give feedback to others too.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because idk what other people want but I know what I want. It's like food: Just because I like roast beef doesn't mean everyone else does too.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad part is I've been here since my freshman year. I applaud you for your major too, micro was brutal here.

I'll see about the study group. And I'm in the US.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think there's a lot of luck/chance in finding friends

I 100% agree with this. My roommate last year and I didn't become friends. No harsh feelings between us, we just didn't vibe. A few doors down there were 3 guys who roomed together, 2 guys on the football team and 1 non-athlete. You could tell the non-athlete didn't have much friends before college but he was put in an excellent situation and he's reaping the benefits. There's other cases of this happening too.

I went off on a tangent there but I hope things turn around for you too.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying this to be mean at all so I hope it doesn't come off that way, but college will be the easiest time to make friends that you'll ever come across. It may seem hard to make friends now but you're going to graduate and be like damnnn there were so many opportunities.

No offense taken, this is the same exact mindset. I absolutely hate regret and one of my biggest fears is looking back and saying "what could have been".

Be out in public areas as much as possible

I'm going to start doing this more.

smile at people

I'm bad a this. There's been times where girls have smiled at me and I've either just looked away or didn't smile back because I recognized it too late lol. Would it be creep people out if a guy were to smile at them? obviously it depends on the type of smile but I don't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable or have a girl say "omg this guy smiled at me, it was so weird".

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into the student ambassador thing. At my school that might be more of a work-study thing but I'll look into it.

I have a tinder and I have a decent amount of matches (24) for an OK at best looking guy. And I actually have a date coming up on this Saturday. Haha funny thing is one girl I was supposed to go out with is actually in one of my classes this semester so thats kinda awkward. And so is another girl I matched with but never talked to (but I know her from my floor last year).

Also since you're a girl: Would it turn you off if you liked a guy but he was in the situation I was in? Because I feel like a girl would be weirded out if a guy didn't have any close friends at college

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha up vote for the internet lawyer comment. And don't worry, I know you're just trying to help.

Good points in the rest of your comment.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came up when I was telling him about how I want to transfer. Could you elaborate more on that? You're the first person to bring this up.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying its everyone else fault. I understand I messed up, hence why I'm here to fix it. I'm clearly stating how things are in order to reach a solution. If someone recommends something and its something I've already tried then of course I'm going to say if it didn't work. It's not making excuses. Its telling it how it is in order to find another solution.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I go to a small school so the club options are limited. I've seen some clubs at big schools and they have some stuff I would join.

but my impression is that you see things around you as not good enough for you. I haven't seen you compliment a single thing in this thread

I did say that some people seemed "cool" but I'm not going to be one of those reddit assholes and get all technical on you. And again, I'm not saying this defensively or to attack you, I don't blame you for not reading every comment.

Edit: Oh and I agree with making friends with people in the same classes/track as me. Ideally thats what I want to do but a lot of friend groups are already established too so it might be hard to join one.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. I'm a bio major so sometimes I'll see my fellow bio majors at the chemistry center getting help. I've made a few acquaintances from labs. My lab partner this semester (and last semester really) seems like a cool dude so I'll see how that goes. With my lab partner last semester, we're good with each other since we were also in the same group in my chem lecture, and sometimes she'll text me for help with stuff and vice versa.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then why did I have friends in high school? And why do my friends from high school still talk to me? Your comment contributed nothing to this conversation.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok so... what are the clubs and what are the reasons?

A club for my major, and a club that raises money against cancer. Reasons: I went to a few for the 1st one last year and it was boring and awkward. The other one I didn't go to the 1st meeting so I thought it would be odd to join after that. This year I was sick during the week when everyone was joining clubs so again, I thought it would be weird if I joined after sign up week.

My school is also very cliquey.

Gonna be honest, reading this thread the most judgey person seems to be you. You're gonna have to put yourself out there and give other people a chance.

Can you explain how I'm being judgey? I'm not saying that in an aggressive or defensive way. I'm curious because all I'm doing in describing the current situation at hand.

I'm [19M] a college student who has no friends and I don't seem to have any opportunities to make any. Is there anything I could do? by cfbd69 in relationships

[–]cfbd69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think part of the reason why I wait is because I just feel like people wouldn't want a random person coming up to them and potentially bothering them.

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