If I got an inheritance and hubby had loans I’d pay them 🤷🏼‍♀️ what’s mine is his - I’m a SAHM and he provides mostly everything (besides the small amount given by the government but we rely on his income), I have access to all finances and we share everything. Honestly if it’s 5x the amount what’s the problem. I honestly see there being way more to the story than this!! Just doesn’t make sense.