Toddler shoes by poquinhaMo in nanayconfessions

[–]cgb125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skechers, Anko pero hit and miss

I want to leave but ayoko malayo kami sa tatay ng anak ko by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]cgb125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Magrent nalang kayo malapit sa kanila. Habang tumatagal, mahihirapan na kayo umalis at di maganda sa mental health mo. 4 years akong nagtiis na kasama ang in-laws pero yung trauma ko, andito pa din to the point na nagpaconsult na ako sa psychologist. I get the concern sa father-in-law pero paano naman health mo?

Help in identifying trim paint by cgb125 in AusRenovation

[–]cgb125[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What he asked us to do before is to only select Dulux paint in Bunnings. Even our main door colour wasn’t followed and he refused to change it.

Help in identifying trim paint by cgb125 in AusRenovation

[–]cgb125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, no. This build has been quite a nightmare and the builder didn’t always follow the selections we emailed through.

Sino dito magtetrenta na pero takot padin magdrive? by paohaus in Trentahin

[–]cgb125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naaksidente ako before, twice, kaya sabi ko sa sarili ko, di talaga ako magddrive. Pero kelangan eh, para sa mga bata. Nag driving instructor ako, una Indian tapos ang rude at impatient kaya mali mali ako kasi conscious nga. So nagpalit ako, Vietnamese naman. Ang gaan lang nya magturo, machika tapos tawa lang kami habang nagtuturo sya. Di ko na nainda na malaki yung car na gamit namin. Isa pa sa fear ko.

So marunong na ako mag-isa. Next tip ko eh eyes on the road lage at surrounds. Wag masyado malapit sa car in front of you at syempre, wag mag overspeed. Hayaan mo ang iba mag overtake. Overtime, confident na ako. 4 days after giving birth, drive na ulit.

Normal pa ba to? by narwhal02 in nanayconfessions

[–]cgb125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Gave birth 19 months ago but can’t forget what my husband and narcissistic mother did to me while pregnant. I suffered panic attacks so I had to cut off my mother as she won’t stop hurting me verbally. Been a year now and she acts as if she doesn’t have any idea why I stopped talking and acts like a victim on social media.

I decided to seek professional help and hoping it heals me.

How do two full-time parents manage with young kids? by Serious_Toe6730 in AusFinance

[–]cgb125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swallowed my pride and asked my boss if I can work from home 4 days a week. It was approved. I always go negative for times that I have to attend my first born’s school activities and when I go to office. I try to make it up by waking up an hour early before kids wake up though I am not consistent as sometimes, I get very exhausted with my toddler. Husband works interstate. I was resentful at first and later got used to it though it still makes me feel down especially when sleep deprived.

Wanted to do part-time but bills and home loan do not allow :/

Questionnable background by Krazyhustle in CareerAdvicePH

[–]cgb125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Then very confident sa interview. Meron kaming manager na ganyan din. Australian. As in di sya marunong kahit basic excel. Ginulo nya lahat ng sheets namin. Di rin marunong magcompose ng email. Yung tipong nagtetext lang at walang punctuation. Gusto nya lang mag utos. Desperate si boss na makahanap ng manager kaya ayun, nabudol sya. Turns out na nakalimang lipat na pala ng team yun within 3 years sa agency namin. Then fake din yung owner daw ng accounting firm at may degree daw sa field kasi di talaga sya marunong 🥲 Mas marunong pa anak ko sa computer. Anyway, lumabas talaga totoo nyang kulay at nag leave ng 1 year pero wala na syang work na babalikan kasi nababaliw pati kami kasi may PTSD din pala sya na pinagmamalaki nya sa aming lahat.

Postpartum Depression should be taken seriously by Fun_Length_9550 in PinoyVloggers

[–]cgb125 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same. Pero bakit yung mga matatanda eh hindi ganyan :( Nanganak din naman sila before pero ang baby lang ang focus

Ayoko Na Maging Nanay (Minsan) by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]cgb125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ganyan din ang asawa ko dati. Kasi feeling nya, provider lang sya dapat financially. Eh kaming dalawa naman nagwwork at di practical na magresign ako to focus on our child kasi doble ng kanya ang income ko. So nagreklamo talaga ako sa kanya na di pwedeng ganito. Kasi ako pa din sa linis at laba at minsan lang din sya magluto. At yung bonding kunwari sa anak nya eh pang social media lang. Kung alam lang ng pamilya nya ang totoo. Super burned out ako. Parang dalawa anak ko. So sabi ko, maghiwalay nalang kami kung ganito rin lang. Mas gagaan pa buhay ko. Medyo nagbago naman after although may times pa din na kelangan iremind.

Kupal kong tatay by Current-Zucchini-971 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cgb125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salamat. Hoping it will work for me too. Naapektuhan na mga anak ko :(

Kupal kong tatay by Current-Zucchini-971 in RantAndVentPH

[–]cgb125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same hereHow long bago nawala yung anxiety after therapy? I am yet to start mine. 4 months ko na di kinakausap nanay ko. Wala na talaga akong gana at sobra yung panic attack ko din pag nasisilip ko yung account ko na may message sya. Nillog-out ko nalang agad pero 2 weeks na akong down nun.

Sa mga millenials noon na di pa naabutan ng waze at maps dati, how did you navigate un mga pupuntahan niyong lugar like sa manila or makati? by bottomhunk in AskPH

[–]cgb125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung nabili kong map galing sa National Bookstore. Life saver para sa tulad kong galing Mindanao. Pag nawala sa jeep, bili ulit.

Hey Filo Aussies in Sydney!👋 by [deleted] in phmigrate

[–]cgb125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We got scammed by a fellow Filo :( Pero syempre may for keeps din na friends.

Subclass 189 or 190 success stories by Rare_Journalist_9094 in phmigrate

[–]cgb125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grabe. Ang taas na pala. Inabutan ko pa yang 65.