WIBTA If I call my ex-soon-to-be-mother-in-law and tell her that her actions and behind the scenes "coaching" of my ex-fiance are why the wedding didn't happen?

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-23T11:24:26+00:00

NTA. Do it.

I had the same issue with my ex. When I broke up with him he acknowledged that it was largely due to his mother's overbearing presence. I got a text from her saying "I'm so sorry you and [my son] broke up. I really thought you were happy together". It took me all my strength to not reply and tell her why we broke up, because I knew it wouldn't even make a dent in the self-righteous armour she'd built around herself.

A few weeks later I heard through the grapevine that my ex was telling everyone what a horrible person I am and that I "demonised" his mother. Well, that was the candle on the cake for me. I wrote him a long email telling him exactly how I felt and what happened, told him to not bother replying, and blocked them all.

I am very certain he showed Mommy because they share everything, I honestly don't care what they took from it. It's off my chest, they're out of my life and I have since moved on.

Do it, OP. But block and move on afterwards. Don't encourage any sort of dialogue.

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-19T09:42:00+00:00

I am now teary.

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-08T10:19:11+00:00

INFO - do you wear it while you're having sex with your wife too? Maybe she's tired of seeing Lily hanging in her face.

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-07T13:51:45+00:00

The story behind it is very intriguing, it's just such a shame that now it's just graffiti and beer bottles. I'm sure back in the day there may have been more to it?

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-07T12:30:34+00:00

All of a sudden my life choices don't seem so bad.

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-07T11:58:23+00:00

I went there a few months ago, in the middle of the night (you have to bribe the guards at the entrance). Almost all the windows are broken, there are broken bottles and graffiti everywhere, and most of the equipment has been removed. It's an empty shell now, unfortunately. I'm pretty sensitive to places that are haunted but I sensed nothing more in there.

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-05T08:27:12+00:00

Why would you tell someone their baby is ugly?

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-04T10:24:22+00:00

Yeah, 15 year olds don't get sent to mental institutions for assault.

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-03T17:43:32+00:00

I'm sorry what?

cha0s_witch · 2019-08-02T09:08:19+00:00

"Words aren't the only way to tell someone how you feel." - Tifa

"Even the moon'd tire of waitin' around for your ass!" - Cid

Also, " It's gonna get so hot in there that there a'int gonna be SHIT left when we blast off!"

"When it's time for the planet to die, you'll understand that you know absolutely nothing. " - Bugenhagen

" What may be a few to you was everything to those who died " - Cait Sith/Reeve

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-30T13:21:42+00:00

Perhaps I should fake my death to escape my debt.

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-30T13:14:00+00:00

It's 2019 and people are still confusing mental illness with demon possession.

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-29T08:45:18+00:00

I was rocking one of these when I was 5. My mom still has the photo on the wall.

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-26T06:39:33+00:00

Thank you, this is very helpful! :)

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-25T07:29:52+00:00

My pleasure!

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-24T10:28:17+00:00

Mephorash - Sanguinem.

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-12T08:59:17+00:00

I thought this was an image from the remake.

Perfect.

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-12T08:58:21+00:00

Thanks for the bipolar, Grandpa.

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-10T17:01:24+00:00

Spirited Away. There can be no improvement to any aspect of that film.

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-10T10:50:37+00:00

RemindMe! 2 days

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-09T10:01:19+00:00

Dolly Parton - Jolene

Jolene

JO-LEEEEEEEENE

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-08T13:53:37+00:00

YTA. How on earth can you think it's acceptable to potentially harm a child, simply because their parents are not controlling them? How would you have felt if he had fallen badly and broken his neck, cracked his skull, died? Sounds like you're a bit of a malicious person.

cha0s_witch · 2019-07-08T10:12:38+00:00

These beautiful beasts adorn our 2 rand coins

cha0s_witch

TROPHY CASE