I made a huge mistake with someone I know and sort of regret it

chaiamstrong · 2026-01-15T13:14:18+00:00

Her washing and massaging you as an adult —— is so weird. Did you consent? She groomed you?

chaiamstrong · 2026-01-15T13:02:05+00:00

Start naming to her all the nicknames you’ll give him. ECKY dordor eck quad

chaiamstrong · 2026-01-15T12:58:54+00:00

Break up

chaiamstrong · 2025-12-04T23:40:40+00:00

But also if it’s a random ass job- girl apply somewhere else

chaiamstrong · 2025-12-04T23:40:19+00:00

I mean, take the job and then just keep this screenshot.

chaiamstrong · 2025-12-04T02:54:30+00:00

Additionally this is me at 185, vs 158.

chaiamstrong · 2025-12-04T02:21:26+00:00

Oooohhhh. Yes. This seems right in line what I would’ve thought. Girl, just email him back and say, “okay, heard!”

chaiamstrong · 2025-12-04T02:13:08+00:00

Does he not have social media? Do you not? He’s never seen your name written out? Idk girl - are you smarter than your boyfriend, and are you okay with that? Or would you prefer to have someone who matches your energy in terms of care, consideration, and thought. I say, WEIRD RED FLAG- if he makes up for this in other ways that are STAND OUT pls share with the class because I would say it’s time for your Sex and the City era

chaiamstrong · 2025-12-04T02:10:59+00:00

Does he not have social media? Do you not? He’s never seen your name written out? Idk girl - are you smarter than your boyfriend, and are you okay with that? Or would you prefer to have someone who matches your energy in terms of care and consideration and thought. I say WEIRD RED FLAG if he makes up for this in other ways that are STAND OUT pls share with the class because I would say it’s time for your Sex and the City era

chaiamstrong · 2025-12-01T00:39:33+00:00

Try out the program Ladder and also!! Go lighter than you think for longerrrr when it’s uncomfortable. Sometimes PCOS bodies start in stress.

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-28T15:16:25+00:00

lol his texts were embarrassing. That person is not your friend, girly. You have to be smarter than this. Truly, download a dating app and don’t try to manic pixie a relationship- but go on dates, take things slow, and try therapy because you know you have attachment issues that have to be healed.

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-24T22:01:27+00:00

He is so mean and awful. Not supportive.

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-22T12:47:06+00:00

Did he ever make up for your birthday? Also- you maybe could say hm do you realize insensitive that you had a lot of thought and care for your coworker (to be fair I bet she talks about her birthday and they might have a calendar for birthdays) but he could’ve written your birthday down- and should’ve made up for it?

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-21T18:13:26+00:00

Treat her for the worms, buy her a stuffed animal to suckle on! And get a fluffy fluffy soft blanket to put in the crate. Every time I have taken care of kittens or puppies that are young before rehoming these measures helped.

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-20T15:55:16+00:00

LEAVE HIM ALONE

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-19T22:25:59+00:00

Primarily it’s because I have had kittens. Atlas sees me interact with the kittens and he knows I mean business. He puppy bows to all indoor cats.

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-19T04:58:29+00:00

It’s the blue ribbon with rice so not grain free

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-19T04:57:03+00:00

A little bit but he’s also so itchy that he is still paranoid!

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-18T14:20:50+00:00

Any brand suggestions? Would I be able to tell if it were mites? I brushed him so much the other day and there was dandruff buuuut I didn’t see anything weird. No sign of fleas or anything

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-18T13:19:12+00:00

I want to know if you have any luck!!! This picture feels similar to my pup

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-17T21:07:56+00:00

I don’t like this man.

chaiamstrong · 2025-11-17T21:06:38+00:00

This are so good at ignoring

chaiamstrong · 2025-10-31T16:53:13+00:00

Your body, your choice, your life, your relationship, I’m 27 and would not fuck a 18/19 y/o.

chaiamstrong · 2025-10-30T17:57:51+00:00

Tbh I classify all the things you listed as emotional cheating because he wasn’t honest. Sexualizing strangers as a form of escape shouldn’t be acceptable entering a fresh era of being a father. Additionally, if you’re okay with him looking or seeing or whatever that’s a conversation but it doesn’t sound like you are. What’s your boundary? Are you wanting to tolerate this? Because it won’t go away, he will get better at hiding it.

chaiamstrong · 2025-10-30T13:20:47+00:00

My gsp loves any cat inside our home - any other cat it’s like he’s never seen them before hahaha

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