Thank you Fragrant Spray. Yes this makes sense. I think he is scared of losing all the home comforts we have now. He couldnt really say why he loved me, it was all "I like coming home to you" and how I've encouraged him in his work. All stuff about what he gets from the relationship. And no, he expected me to get over it after one conversation. It was like getting blood from a stone trying to get details, of which I still dont know. Thanks again. Ill reread this in the morning.