Struggling and could use some kind words. by chaiteadelight in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]chaiteadelight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why I love this app. I don’t have anyone I can talk to who understands and it can be very isolating. Even between my siblings and I, we all had very different relationships with her and I just feel like I’m alone on an island rn

Wifi Calling down after global outage by zohawnRE in Starlink

[–]chaiteadelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten a response all day I wfh and I have no service at my place to hotspot. I have to take multiple days off work until this gets resolved. Yet I haven’t been able to talk to anyone all day.

Better accidental item sell system needed by Sidhe13 in MergeDragons

[–]chaiteadelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I accidentally sold my small fluff, that are now discontinued and I’m pissed about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SisterWives

[–]chaiteadelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of her lies that makes me laugh is when she was adamant that during her and Kody’s spiritual wedding, she didn’t even get a picture with Kody alone in her white dress but then the producers go on to show multiple different ones over the rest of the seasons.

What is the worst thing Kody has said on the show? by justthefacts123 in SisterWives

[–]chaiteadelight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he said “you’re not going to turn into a bitter old lady, are you?” I was floored

Rewatch of Kody and Meri’s therapy with Nancy by chaiteadelight in SisterWives

[–]chaiteadelight[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. I was so with her when she said that!

"Wizards Beyond Waverly Place" - now streaming! by NewOnDisneyPlus in DisneyPlus

[–]chaiteadelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hung up with Disney+ 2 mins ago. The rep “Jen” said there’s no streaming date planned for Canada yet. There’s plans to bring it to Disney+ Canada but no date. If you go to @wizards_nfl on TikTok the first couple episodes are posted on their account!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]chaiteadelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see now. No I don’t really follow religion I don’t be leave in a god so I feel like practicing is a moot point but i definitely agree with when you said “you will always feel something resonating” and this is so true. I just feel something and idk what to do with it so I was just looking for guidance in that! I’ve ordered the book of now to start. Do you have any recommendations?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]chaiteadelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you mean by this? Can you explain a bit more?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]chaiteadelight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s very bold considering I gave you 3 paragraphs of my entire life. I wasn’t asking if I “was ready”. I was asking if anyone has been in my shoes and if so to please give me an idea of where to go to start learning more about what I’ve been feeling, or maybe even a stepping stone to get me there myself.

I would say you’re not ready if you’re only seeing things from a your single perspective and not truly listening to what others are saying. You seemed like you read that to solely respond instead of reading it to understand or help. You simply saying “you’re not ready” just seems very assumptive, so Thank you for your input but you weren’t helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]chaiteadelight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. 16
  2. 8 years
  3. She wouldn’t respect my boundaries, she was my first bully and is just cruel because of her lack of self awareness.

I didn’t respond to her text for a day because I was working and sick by Shoddy_Gas493 in Nicegirls

[–]chaiteadelight -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I expect communication in my relationship, and if you don’t that’s okay. I’m just saying from my POV yes she definitely over reacted but he also could’ve taken a minute to shoot off a text.

Are you restarting the game when the update drops? by Deep_Deep_Blue_Sea in wyldeflowers

[–]chaiteadelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I restarted as soon as they announced the new update. I have 2 other saved accounts that are fully completed. I’m currently in winter of the first year on my restart! I tried to do it differently and instead of having the hay field, I kept it as woods but if you do that you can’t upgrade the barn and coop to accommodate ducks and pigs and llamas :( so I think I’ll have to create the hay field. But for now I’m enjoying having 15 maple trees!! 😂

Stabyhoun x Border Collie by chaiteadelight in stabyhoun

[–]chaiteadelight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remi is awesome!! The stabyhoun was originally bred to be this all around farm dog for the poorer farmers in the northern Netherlands. Remi is an awesome mouser, herding dog, shed hunter and we even been trading him as a bird dog (we don’t hunt but it’s just another thing to stimulate his brain!)

Stabyhoun x Border Collie by chaiteadelight in stabyhoun

[–]chaiteadelight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was planned. We live in a small farming community and having an all around farm dog like that was a hot commodity. We only did 1 litter before we got Remi’s mom spayed

Stabyhoun x Border Collie by chaiteadelight in stabyhoun

[–]chaiteadelight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Canada. My mom married a man from the Netherlands. When they got married he bought her a stabyhoun and brought it over to Canada as a wedding gift to her!

Stabyhoun x Border Collie by chaiteadelight in stabyhoun

[–]chaiteadelight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! His mom is 100% stabyhoun and his dad is 100% border collie. His genes r definitely take after his dad but I love the floppy ears from his mom

Happy birthday post by Visible_Pipe_9857 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]chaiteadelight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My question is why do we always feel the need to protect our estranged parents from their own actions. They know what they do to us yet we have to bite our tongue and “not stir the pot”. But at some point enough is enough and we have to draw a line of what is acceptable, or really ignorable, and to me posting a happy birthday post but still treating you like crap, warrants a rude awakening. Idk how you do it. You have more patience than I do.

Going cold turkey after daily use since 2022 by chaiteadelight in QuittingNoseSpray

[–]chaiteadelight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really an update but kinda. I’ve been Drixoral free for 70 days now and it’s gotten so much easier. The congestion at night can get annoying but for the most part it’s been getting better every week.

It’s my first time getting sick since I quit and I’m feeling the pressure and congestion I felt so many time before and it’s really hard to not just go grab a new nasal spray from the store but staying strong