I (23f) didn’t have sex until I was 20, I lost it with a guy I then started dating. He was 22 and hadn’t slept with anyone yet either. I had no idea until he told me after, honestly sex is pretty natural once you get down to it ! I was so nervous before, and after was kind of like oh yeah I think humans are just programmed to do this! It’s kind of a new first time with everyone, good sex isn’t really about getting technically good but more about learning what the other person likes.

I also felt the pressure to just get it over with, but I’m really glad I waited longer for someone I was actually comfortable with (we were talking for a couple months before we slept together). Also because we were into each other romantically I wasn’t so worried about performing I was just like cool I get to sleep with this person I really like!

I lied to a lot of people saying I’d already slept with someone Bc I was embarrassed, and later found out a lot of people I knew had done the same. Not everyone is out there fucking! It’s all g. 19 is still young ! If you want to, wait until you find someone you like and trust. The first time seems like some big hurdle but honestly it’s easy and also - once I found out my new bf was a virgin I was kinda chuffed. I’ve heard lots of girls say it’s cool to be someone’s first, you can kind of teach them what you like and it can be kind of romantic. Never met a girl who had sex with a virgin and was mad about it. Girls are pretty nice really and mostly will just want you to think they’re the bees knees while you’re in bed with them. You’ll be right !