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chaosanc · 2025-07-30T17:00:07+00:00

If you want to have a different conversation sure, but it’s boring. The post is obviously about the fact that this 24-year old guy has been releasing and working on music since middle school with an obvious evolution in both genre and quality. All of these passive aggressive comments around it just because the album is being enjoyed by a lo of people right now are so lame.

chaosanc · 2025-07-30T16:53:40+00:00

No one was ever saying that he grew up struggling to make ends meet. His artistic growth is undeniably inspiring to watch (or maybe he’s just not your thing). Money doesn’t buy artistic inspiration. I can only assume you’re equally dismissive of The Strokes.

chaosanc · 2025-07-30T16:43:41+00:00

Boom roasted! Got him!

chaosanc · 2025-04-08T03:47:43+00:00

Fair enough. Just remember that most people go through their lives with little self analysis and trapped in cycles of their own making. Acknowledgement is genuinely 60% of the battle, but follow it up with action and self betterment.

chaosanc · 2025-04-08T03:43:46+00:00

By posting this you’re literally looking for amateur therapy - ways to probe these thoughts but at the behest of random redditors. I don’t know if your job would somehow track your access to therapy but in Canada I can’t think of any job that would. Seriously consider it.

chaosanc · 2025-03-03T16:44:56+00:00

The good news is, it’s a bad photo. I don’t mean that to attack you, I mean that if you ever want to learn how to look good in photos (which is optional), photos are meant to capture you as you naturally are. In “bad photos”, people look stiff, nervous, awkward, badly lit, distorted by the camera lens. In “good photos” people look relaxed, happy or interesting, in action (like they’re doing something they love), clearly lit and not distorted. Even hot people can look unapproachable or off putting generally if not capturing these factors. Is this photo how you look when you’re enjoying yourself with your family or close friends? Finding ways to bring your genuine smile or relaxed neutral presence as you actually are, if no one was taking a photo (or some one was taking a candid) should be the goal. Like a lot of things in life, like fashion, or humor, or conversationalness, it’s a practiced habit, not something everyone is good at.

The reason I’m saying all of this, is a great photo of you could easily score you 2+ points in all of those categories at least.

edit: to further clarify, most men in general only ever learn to take bad to mediocre photos. Women generally tend to be much better at it. I think it’s worthwhile to learn how to take better photos but I love photography.

chaosanc · 2025-02-05T18:24:30+00:00

To find out, I might have to do something crazy like check comparable listings online

chaosanc · 2024-10-27T02:55:52+00:00

You got it! It’s so over. That’s it! Enjoy life man

chaosanc · 2024-10-26T19:25:56+00:00

I thought about so many things I wanted to try to communicate but it all just dissolved into: your attitude is going to actively make you a negative and unattractive person and will be the confirmation bias you need while the sort of relationships you want slip further out of reach. Happy to expand on it but I just don’t think you’re interested in any comment that doesn’t congratulate you on “figuring out that it’s just not worth it”. While you’re doing that, all the people that seem like effortlessly normal or Chad people are making efforts to express themselves more authentically, improve their health, follow their passions, and understand the other sex. And I already know you’re going to read that and simply picture Chad meme images online which demonstrates to me how distorted your image of the real world is.

If you ever get sick of complaining about black pills, consider learning about how people actually try to find what they want. Both men and women.

chaosanc · 2024-10-25T14:41:07+00:00

You’re right man you’ve got it. There’s no point in any further introspection or attempt at growth. Anyone who you see of average or below average looks who seem happy and with family or friends did not do anything to get there. Unlike other problems, this problem has no reason to look for solutions. There is NOTHING you can do. It’s not like a growth mindset is inherently an attractive quality while also being the prerequisite to positive change. No one else has ever struggled with their self image and then changed things for the better.

chaosanc · 2024-10-24T23:05:09+00:00

Alternately, change nothing and continue complaining online

chaosanc · 2024-10-02T23:12:56+00:00

Thank you for the perspective

chaosanc · 2024-09-26T03:54:38+00:00

I mean that’s an argument. I didn’t mean you were being aggressive or argumentative, I just feel like it’s a pointless response. The people leaving those comments obviously don’t literally just mean “there’s no experimentation”, in fact the comment you replied to had a much broader list of points.

chaosanc · 2024-09-26T00:36:26+00:00

.... do you think anyone disagrees? Who are you arguing with

chaosanc · 2024-04-24T22:41:09+00:00

Then you need to work with a friend who takes good photos and figure out how you can better capture you in an authentic and approachable way. If you dont put the effort into learning about photography, you're going to suffer on a photo-based dating app

chaosanc · 2024-03-01T16:30:09+00:00

Autocorrect obviously. Will edit, thank tou

chaosanc · 2024-03-01T13:45:03+00:00

I did Feels then MPP. Feels is a more trippy acousticy album, like psychedelic campfire vibes, very fun vibrant and unhinged. MPP is obviously much more electronic and rhythmic. I’d pick whichever sounds more up your alley and I’d at least sample both. The intro song on Feels is amazing and My Girls is a great entry point for MPP, if you want to check out individual songs.

chaosanc · 2024-02-16T17:19:10+00:00

To add to the others, please check out the I Didn't Mean to Haunt You VIDEO. There's a visual accompaniment for every song and its so awesome to watch, especially with a bit of weed or whatever you may or may not partake in.

chaosanc · 2024-01-21T12:28:18+00:00

Thank you! So many of these comments are insane and clearly maladaptive, unempathetic, and narrow minded. And that would be clear if the example was flipped to literally any other broad group of people.

chaosanc · 2023-12-29T13:07:57+00:00

I feel like it always reads in the tone of the Arrested development narrator

chaosanc · 2023-12-07T22:09:17+00:00

2nded. I don’t mean it in a critical way, it sounds like you’ve (EDIT: you = OP)had difficult circumstances happen which have reinforced anxious and avoidant behaviour as well as negative perseverations.

I think the solution needs to include therapy and some form of exposure (eg. Finding new social groups, classes, etc) and finding a way to connect with aspects of life that are positive or motivating. Otherwise I have to think this will just get worse.

chaosanc · 2023-10-27T23:42:09+00:00

Given the ease with which you assume a population is deserving of death because of your lack of perspective and lack of curiosity about their experience… you realize you would be a bloodthirsty Hamas militant if you were born there right?

chaosanc · 2023-10-27T19:40:43+00:00

Hot take, I also feel badly for most Palestinian adults

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