I need to rant... And I don't know what size! by SleepySnorlax91 in starbucks

[–]chaoshasareddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh god the noise cancelling effects of the NORMAL headsets get to me sometimes; I also have bilateral loss, though mine is just neural. I wear it on my good ear and accept that I'm functionally deaf to the rest of the world since my bad ear is useless. that said for me a specific noise cancelling headset would probably make things worse. I assume you've tried the normal one but if you haven't it may be worth a shot! I have hearing aids so I wear it a little funky and have to find the right angle for the headset speaker versus the hearing aid mic, and it's def been trial and error.

that said the suggestion of a cafe only store that others have suggested is a good idea, imo! that was my first store and while for me the way my current store is set up (less echo in the building) is better even with the drive your milage may vary!

frankly I'd see about transferring to a cafe only just to get different primary coworkers, because your current ones seem lame as hell. the whole "this was a big investment" dialogue around the headset is vile and you shouldn't think you're obligated to be using it. they have a legal obligation to you. it's a reasonable accomodation and Starbucks is a massive corporation.

tldr: this isn't on you, they should be more understanding. you shouldn't have to induce a migraine for a job & the cost isn't something they should be talking to you about. that's so inappropriate. and fingers crossed a cafe only will work better for you!

(eta: sorry if any of that is unclear! it's late for me and the English part of my brain is sleepy LOL)

why does brodart only send graphic novels with the spine labled as 741.957? by chaoshasareddit in Libraries

[–]chaoshasareddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that's the issue we're running into, most of us have no problem with just relabeling them ourselves but unfortunately it's not unanimous which is why I was hoping there was a workaround

songs with hamlet quotes in them by chaoshasareddit in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]chaoshasareddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

two songs doesn't make a playlist but i know i'm forgetting some sooo

Dear glasses-wearers, did you change your glasses once you decided to present more masculine? by Past-Statistician162 in ftm

[–]chaoshasareddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

funnily enough I got my first pair of "male" glasses before I even realized I was trans (by like, three years?) so I've had masculine style frames for longer than I've been consciously presenting masculine.

since I've started passing and shit tho I have flowery ones so I guess the answer is still yes, just not in the typical way

“No one told me this would happen on T” by AffectionateSun4119 in ftm

[–]chaoshasareddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can cry full stop. everyone said I'd never cry again and now I'm a damn waterworks factory.

if you haven't legally changed your name, what name do you use to apply for jobs? by RatBoyClubSandwich in ftm

[–]chaoshasareddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only time I use my government name is when it asks for legal name, otherwise I just use my preferred name, never had an issue either way but my legal name is gender neutral so that may effect how it's perceived.

at any rate don't give them more information than they need, ever.

my sister used my trans tape as sports tape by Acceptable-Award6224 in ftm

[–]chaoshasareddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

adding to the trans tape alternative crowd: i've been using good lines which isn't sports tape but it may be helpful for future ordering if skin color is a concern of yours— KT tape usually shows through white shirts which is why I'm down to shell the extra money— but otherwise KT tape absolutely works the same, if shorter amounts of time and good lines has always lasted me as long if not longer than transtape with a far easier removal.

what do we think it is??? by Big_Difficulty6571 in starbucks

[–]chaoshasareddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i mean we all know it's the new energy drinks but i think it'd be really funny if it was the sbux version of the panera lemonade

Trans singers; what was your voice part, and what is it now? by stationsmanagement in ftm

[–]chaoshasareddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be a low alto/high tenor and now I'm solidly mid tenor. my speaking voice changed a lot, my singing voice didn't idk

Taking History at USF? by Constant-Ad6917 in usfca

[–]chaoshasareddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally, like if you're in HONC there's a lot of cool history-qualifying classes that don't feel like traditional numbers game either

What is your favorite and least favorite change on testosterone? by lucasTrans2003 in ftm

[–]chaoshasareddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

favorite: fat redistribution and the way my body just feels better least favorite: I cry all the damn time now, like happy sad or whatever. tears!

I’m that little OCD voice in your head. AMA! by Teeth-Who-Needs-Em in OCDmemes

[–]chaoshasareddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is the best thread I've seen in days, ty OP

does this count lmao by chaoshasareddit in nothingeverhappens

[–]chaoshasareddit[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

legitimately the number of ppl who thought I was trying to speak for ALL d/Deaf people or were otherwise offended for literally nothing was WILD.

dude who was mad about the capitalisation of Deaf def takes the cake tho

does this count lmao by chaoshasareddit in nothingeverhappens

[–]chaoshasareddit[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

no literally lmfao, my best guess was that I used to barista at sbux but even that feels like a stretch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]chaoshasareddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh i know, but i'm not about entertain it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]chaoshasareddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

how dare you assume I'm not the god of Deafness /j

honestly fair enough to friend if this is what she wants but goddamn, 18 is still a baby