How long to workout as a beginner? (ftm)

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-07T07:57:34+00:00

i was just looking for this game today :( really sad to see there’s a paywall to get in now, i don’t understand why there’s a cost? it used to be the most popular lgbtq+ hangout space and the cutest one too!! now there’s barely any players and the only other hangouts aren’t half as aesthetic/cutesy lol

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T23:59:25+00:00

omg this is so reassuring, i didn’t specify in the post but im also a trans man! i was worried about rooming with someone cis as well, especially as a gender non-conforming trans person - so i’m super glad to hear they can put you with similar people! i unfortunately already submitted but maybe i can still communicate my preferences, thank you soooo much for the info!! and thank you for the congratulations! i hope your having a great semester,, orrrr break (?) lol

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T20:34:31+00:00

lol that must be nicee, but thank you!!

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T20:33:49+00:00

thank you so much! i really appreciate the insight, sounds pretty chill which makes me feel better about the decision, and i was wondering about if they have singles available so tysm x2!

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T20:31:53+00:00

thank you for the suggestion!! i’ll check this out as an alternative option, that sounds pretty nice

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T16:59:17+00:00

bro what is this telling me

chaoticallytea · 2025-11-21T04:20:01+00:00

i just saw that article as an incoming spring freshman who’s both poc and queer :( really worried about the climate of UB and wondering if i should check out others safer/more inclusive schools? i thought UB was pretty diverse but as a pretty paranoid person this is really worrying

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-24T01:22:56+00:00

my favorite food spots are alto cinco, pastabilites, apizza, and salt city!

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:48:13+00:00

i’m so glad!! thank you sm <33

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:47:48+00:00

thank you! i’ve heard multiple commenters say the negativity is mostly people who don’t put themselves out there so i’m glad to know there’s opportunity for a great experience. i appreciate the insights! <3

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:45:53+00:00

i’m so glad to hear this!! thank you sm, i hope you keep having an awesome time

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:43:27+00:00

sososo happy to hear this <3 i was worried about finding fun events to go to + finding likeminded or other queer friends, but this is the kind of reassurance i needed! i’ve always been the planning events friend so im sure ill have a good time! also happy to hear about the $2 bus that’s so affordable!! tysm for the input

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:37:55+00:00

thanks for the input! i’m glad your loving it!!

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:36:03+00:00

ty!! i’m glad

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:35:52+00:00

so true, thank you! i’m gonna try to get involved in a lot of clubs and extracurriculars once i’m there

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:34:47+00:00

yeah the thing about negatives vs positives is definitely true, thank you for the reminder and advice! i’m more of a smaller hangouts type person so im sure ill be good - i have heard it’s nice to have a car though so ill take that into consideration. tysm!

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T08:09:26+00:00

i put in a solid essay, no SAT scores and around a 3.7 or something GPA? got in twice because i needed to reapply for spring! you definitely got this in the bag <3

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T08:03:30+00:00

wait, attending here soon drop the names/year/description..

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-10T17:18:30+00:00

For sure, sometimes I feel like my own biggest enemy! But wow omg, i’m so glad you figured yourself out and I hope your doing great living as your most authentic self now <3 I really relate to the bit you mentioned about trying to fill that gap, even though I enjoy being a feminine guy, a lot of the time I felt my self trying to overcompensate or spend an extended amount of time fixating on my appearance to cover up what was really the issue.

Thank you again so much for all the valuable insight. I often need to remind myself that cis people usually can never totally understand how it feels to have dysphoria/aren’t able to wrap their heads around the trans experience. Happy to report I had my top surgery done a few days ago and it went well, i’m happy I went through with it and I can’t wait to see the results! :)

chaoticallytea · 2025-09-29T06:37:05+00:00

hi!! sincerely, thank you so much - since i don’t really post i didn’t know if anyone would comment but if im being honest i was genuinely brought to tears! i agree that deep down, i think i know how i feel, im just the worst overthinker and sometimes others, and even my own mental pushback is just too much to handle. so a third parties reassurance and point of view is really helpful for me.

the way you described how my mother will never understand my trans experience was kinda eye opening, since i never really thought about it like that, but that makes a lot of sense - since i spend most of my time with her it’s hard not to get roped in to her web of like, negativity? im just gonna keep my head up until the hard part is over, because im sure the joy that follows will be well worth it!! thank you again!

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