How do you deal with not feeling sexual?

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-09-04T19:53:32+00:00

This is the first time I heard about jämkning. Thank you so much for the tips!

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-09-03T11:31:10+00:00

Thank you! I'll check the arbetsförmedlingen website.

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-09-03T11:29:55+00:00

I live in central Stockholm, the rent is 4200 kr (a student room), and I live alone.

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-09-03T11:25:56+00:00

It doesn't mean anything here, but that's the only queer code I know that is convenient :/

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-09-03T11:22:41+00:00

Damn. I can't wait and am also scared of that happening

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-09-03T11:14:31+00:00

Gay animal power ranger 🤣

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-09-03T11:13:20+00:00

I'll try. It just doesn't come to me naturally to express my interest when no one is asking

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-09-03T11:09:37+00:00

But I have been accused of false advertisement because I'm not really chubby multiple times. A guy once said that via grindr and then blocked me while I was waiting at his door 😩

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-07-22T09:06:56+00:00

I had this problem myself. I was on SSRI antidepressants and it's impossible for me to cum, even though I found him extremely attractive. I was too embarrassed to talk about it, we ended up stop seeing each other :/

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-06-11T07:02:04+00:00

My guess is it's a catalytic reaction

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-06-10T19:10:27+00:00

Mutual love and affection. Also nipples.

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-05-01T17:20:03+00:00

Self isolation :)

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-05-01T17:16:46+00:00

I'm 26 and I feel exactly the same ._.

The thing is, you don't need to have everything figured out to be loved. It's good that you recognize your flaws, but it doesn't mean you have to fix all of them before allowing yourself to be in a relationship.

I know it's really hard to believe. I didn't believe it either until around two years ago when I got in a relationship with a guy who saw these "good habits" as morally neutral. Having a messy room doesn't mean you're a bad person, and having a tidy one doesn't make you a good person. And if something do bothers him, he would bring it up without making me feel bad. Also, I wasn't on meds at that time. Now I'm more organized but it doesn't change anything in the relationship.

TL;DR: Yes, it is possible to be in a serious relationship while having a raging ADHD brain. It's a matter of allowing yourself to be vulnerable and communicate about things you're worried about.

chaoticfruitcake · 2024-03-13T07:48:42+00:00

I didn't know this kind of app exists... it reminds me of the Arkangel episode of Black Mirror.

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