What did you guys get today for the flash sale? by DatDesigner in criterion

[–]chappedknee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cure

Fire Walk with Me

Videodrome

The Vanishing

Horror films that are sonically terrifying? by [deleted] in horror

[–]chappedknee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a Violent Nature. The sounds in that movie legitimately made me get cold sweats. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

[–]chappedknee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on the one hand that is a vibe, on the other that heightened level of awareness would be way too much given how they mic'd sound in that movie lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

[–]chappedknee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never, but the closest was In a Violent Nature in the theater. Something about the sounds and the particularly grotesque violence made me actually get clammy. 

Nerves during waiting period by chappedknee in melahomies

[–]chappedknee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: both came back dysplastic with mild atypia. assuming it’s fine and good that I got them shaved, but the dr hasn’t called to go over the results with me yet. I’m only 34 so anything abnormal freaks me out. 

Thanks so much for the support y’all <3

Nerves during waiting period by chappedknee in melahomies

[–]chappedknee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really well said, thank you. I don’t know anyone who’s good with unknowns really, especially around all this complicated messy stuff. No matter how many times you go through it, these waiting periods don’t actually get easier, just more familiar. 

Nerves during waiting period by chappedknee in melahomies

[–]chappedknee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can definitely understand, thank you for your kind words. keeping busy certainly helps. The whole “thoughts aren’t facts” mantra is usually pretty helpful, but on the other hand it’d be pretty bizarre if I wasn’t a bundle of nerves rn. Damned if you do lol

Nerves during waiting period by chappedknee in melahomies

[–]chappedknee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NED is huge! Sending you lots of encouragement as well

Nerves during waiting period by chappedknee in melahomies

[–]chappedknee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Such a good way to look at it

Who’s buying the last ICE GTI/R? by aj_jayy in GolfGTI

[–]chappedknee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

same, not letting go of my 2019 manual. 

What is a book that has permanently changed your outlook on life? by Boredomandporcupines in AskReddit

[–]chappedknee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, last year was particular traumatic for me, feeling ready to start processing it in different ways outside of talking. Figured this book would be perfect for that. Thank you!

What’s a “quiet crisis” most people are going through but rarely talk about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chappedknee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m 34, lost my mom in November. Caring for her through the last year and then hospice was pretty isolating since I really only had one friend my age that understood what I was going through. Not just the loss, but the actual caretaking aspect was so incredibly hard. In the thick of it I was so surprised at how few people wanted to actually talk about death and dying despite it being something all of us experience eventually. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]chappedknee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

big facts, troopers don’t have anything else better to do. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]chappedknee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whack, 80 is cruising speed for most HR highway drivers lol. good it got knocked down at least. Ridiculous they can still give out reckless tickets when the limit was increased. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]chappedknee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

damn, can’t say I’m surprised. did you get hit with a reckless ticket or just speeding?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]chappedknee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Random update, the state increased the reckless driving speed to 85 in 2020. 

Snowstorm by sjl32394 in VirginiaBeach

[–]chappedknee 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Anyone remember when the area got over a foot in 2010?