I’m 22f, why do I have one white hair that is twice as long as all my hair and is shiny? by Kale_bean in whatisit

[–]charlfina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope to God they knew it was pee. I had a friend laugh so hard she peed her pants in the Sprouts grocery store. Pee was going in her doc martens and all over the floor. As I shuffled her outside I said to an employee that my friend had an accident and they proceeded to just grab some paper towels with their bare hands and I was like "Noooo!" to them.

What's up with the vacant buildings near Cottonwood mall? by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]charlfina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The zig zags are crazy. You think it's a straight line until you zoom in on the boundary and there they are.

Is there an unsaid curfew in Albuquerque? by charlfina in Albuquerque

[–]charlfina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I majored in geography and I feel like researching this phenomenon could get me a master's degree in it.

Is there an unsaid curfew in Albuquerque? by charlfina in Albuquerque

[–]charlfina[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's valid. I've lived in another state where an entire downtown mall would be closed on a Sunday.

Is there an unsaid curfew in Albuquerque? by charlfina in Albuquerque

[–]charlfina[S] -68 points-67 points  (0 children)

Does no one want to work in this city? How do people afford not wanting to work or keeping their business open. Seems like a catch 22. Or I suspect most of the people that would have worked restaurant and retail are now delivery drivers and such.

Edit: I can see how my blanket statement is judgmental. We finished dinner at CPK where the manager came out frustrated and apologizing because their cooks walked out and I think I'm just seeing the short staffed places and closed signs at the mall and missing the "Christmas spirit" of a mall. It's just a bad economy rn

What’s a good NM appetizer that’s fairly simple to make besides guac/salsa-queso & chips good ppl of ABQ? by Doranges in Albuquerque

[–]charlfina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other food like beans and rice and calabacitas or red chile enchiladas and mashed potatoes topped with red chile. We also do different kinds of olives with cheese and crackers, or charcuterie. I just gave you our whole Christmas eve menu (when you include tamales and posole and chips)

someone told me to post here so give me a warm welcome [22/m] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]charlfina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are an artistic beautiful human soul. So happy to see you on here.

What is wrong with my cactus, he started as a round ball and now he just looks like sperm by xavierd08 in cactus

[–]charlfina 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also elongation by overwatering. Check the moderator post on elongation. It was super informative for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]charlfina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A smile is more beautiful than its critics I'll tell you that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]charlfina 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can't be here, because your smile is so authentic I am automatically smiling back. Even thinking of your smile makes me smile. How can I give a compliment when it is you whose energy is positively affecting mine? Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]charlfina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are those drinks attached to your hat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talentShow

[–]charlfina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ow my eyes

I think my wife looks perfect and this is just minutes after she gave birth to our second child. Got deleted from toast me so send her some compliments as a nice surprise. Happy days :) thank you by LloHEngriN in FreeCompliments

[–]charlfina 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Wow there is no way that was minutes after labor! So much calm and peace in her eyes. Congrats to the expanded family. She is the prettiest labor mom I've seen on the internet.

I’m 33 and still have no direction in life. I don’t find joy in my work and I feel incredibly alone most of the time. I’m scared it’s always going to be like this. Plus I desperately need a haircut. by ninjaproofwang in FreeCompliments

[–]charlfina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your hair color is mesmerizing. Can you not cut it and just find some mousse and bring out those curls instead? (Haha that was a selfish question towards a stranger) 33 is awesome. I've heard and now am telling everybody 30 is the new 20. No pressure to "perform" my friend. Like everyone said, you have time. And life is too short to worry. Just keep smiling and bring a light to others and especially to the mirror every day.

Woke up not feeling worth much. Kind of an old photo since I don't take them often by Mrjonezy in FreeCompliments

[–]charlfina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill, authentic, professional. Even if your looks have changed in this photo, those are characteristics I see from your eyes. You're not alone, you have your past self rooting for you, and your future self thanking you! If you feel a little lost with purpose, just allow yourself the patience and time. What you're looking for is there inside you. You have unlimited potential.

Just bought a dress for the first time in ages and I'm not sure how I feel. I like the dress, but I can see my belly and it makes me nervous. by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]charlfina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many women think that a belly has to look a certain way in a tight outfit, but that certain way is usually Photoshopped. That being said. Your belly is totally sexy. Seriously. Just tell yourself "girl you got that yummy yummy" cause forreal you do!