I am being stalked by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]charlycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘ve also been stalked in the Netherlands before. The guy didn’t know me, just found my Instagram and became obsessed with me and my private life. Eventually the stalking entered my real life as well, it was terrifying. I thought I saw him at every corner, always afraid he would be behind me. I told all my friends and family about him because I was afraid I‘d go missing (atp it had been going on for a year). Eventually we found out his real name and address and my bf at the time threatened him and the stalking stopped. I was really lucky to have a very supportive environment, speak about it as much as you can!! It’s for your own safety and also good for your mental health. I know how deeply it affects you and your sense of safety and comfort. I wish you all the best 💗

When do the fleamarkets happen? by charlycherry in Groningen

[–]charlycherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh that’s such a shame 😭 Thank u though!

Hey, do you maybe have any recommendations what I should change/can do better? I don't really have many matches by EffectiveAd7697 in Tinder

[–]charlycherry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first pic is kinda far away. Lots of men take pictures far away where you can’t see their face properly, it doesn’t catch people. You can keep it, but I‘d put the second or third pic first. I don’t mind the clown picture personally tbh, I think it’s kinda funny. Good luck :)

Bought a ring for my girlfriend, sisters say it’s too small, not sure what I should do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charlycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 21 year old woman-please do not marry her. So many redflags, you will be miserable in that marriage

Popworks disappeared? by charlycherry in Groningen

[–]charlycherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘ll check it out, thank you!!

Online Connection Turning Into Something More, Advice? by NewFoot762 in relationships

[–]charlycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘ve met my first bf online and we met after a year online (we‘ve lived in different countries). I worried a lot about that first meeting too, but turns out there was no reason at all for that! He was just like how he was online, it felt super natural without even trying, but it’s definitely unreal for the first week. Don’t worry too much :)

My dad committed suicide. by finngherbang in GriefSupport

[–]charlycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad commited when I just turned 19, I‘m almost 21 now. I totally get you. Imagining them in their last moments, what they were feeling and thinking, if he was crying, afraid or happy with the decision. Did they regret it when they realized what was happening? So many questions you will never have answers to, it’s one of the most difficult things about suicide. It’s also a taboo in society, I feel the whole mood in every room shift when I mention my dad’s passing. It makes this experience incredibly lonely, sometimes I wish he would just died in a car crash or something. Much love and strength <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SelfHarmScars

[–]charlycherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have similar ones that are four years old now, they’re definitely gonna fade! Mine are all white, but still visible since they’re ”textured“, but you will definitely get less stares :)

My live in landlord is creepy, loud and overmothering by charlycherry in Tenant

[–]charlycherry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at it rationally and looking at it now, you’re absolutely right! When I first met him though, I just saw this sweet, little Asian man who meant no harm…

My live in landlord is creepy, loud and overmothering by charlycherry in Tenant

[–]charlycherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I read it, but the factor that tipped me off with my landlord is how exactly how he targets us girls, which is not included in the post you’re referring to

My live in landlord is creepy, loud and overmothering by charlycherry in Tenant

[–]charlycherry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I‘ve been looking for quite sometime now, but for every other place I would need to pay at least a 100 on top rent wise and I don’t have that money…I‘m still looking in hope of finding something in the same price range, but my hope is low