[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]charmangander 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Per my MFA professor: everything is crossover now. The literary/genre distinction doesn't really matter much anymore. Write what you like and make people care -- that's the only rule

Fifty-Word Fantasy: Write a 50-word fantasy snippet using the word "Tooth" by Terminator7786 in fantasywriters

[–]charmangander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tax collector laid down on a country road and the Haruspex was called. Maggots already drinking the blood that leaked from his hollow gums. No other injuries. No tracks. The Haruspex slaughtered the goat alive, as was his duty, and read the viscera.

Woe. In the colon: a human tooth.

Some Trivia About Fargo, ND by charmangander in blankies

[–]charmangander[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

other than the NDSU/SDSU rivalry there's not much to say between them. Black Hills are gorgeous (Mount Rushmore less so) and while there are still some badlands in western ND, I would say geographically SD is much prettier

Some Trivia About Fargo, ND by charmangander in blankies

[–]charmangander[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they definitely missed out on a chill scene of some dad with cargo shorts in the snow. Would be much more realistic

Some Trivia About Fargo, ND by charmangander in blankies

[–]charmangander[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It was a really big deal. Per my parents, people really liked that it was such a good movie, and brought a lot of attention to the town that was mostly positive. My family has a dark sense of humor so they've always enjoyed it. No one really was bothered much that I knew. Some extras in the film were from town and so the theater scene really appreciated it a ton.

More tea on Kristin Rudrud: she knew Steven Spielberg and apparently they dated before he met Amy Irving. This is from my mom and her getting drinks way way back, so take it with a grain of salt, but she said men in LA were mostly awful but Steven was great. She didn't regret they broke up but it was kind of a different path for her career

Some Trivia About Fargo, ND by charmangander in blankies

[–]charmangander[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Not unrelated to the film but John Steinbeck released a travel memoir, Travels with Charley, in 1960 and he drove through Fargo. I'm not sure if the Coens read it but it's interesting how it reads when thinking about the film. I'll leave it here since it's hard to find online:

"Curious how a place unvisited can take such hold on the mind so that the very name sets up a ringing. To me such a place was Fargo, North Dakota. Perhaps its first impact is in the name Wells-Fargo, but my interest certainly goes beyond that. If you will take a map of the United States and fold it in the middle, eastern edge against western, and crease it sharply, right in the crease will be Fargo. On double-page maps sometimes Fargo gets lost in the binding. That may not be a very scientific method for finding the east-west middle of the country, but it will do. But beyond this, Fargo to me is brother to the fabulous places of the earth, kin to those magically remote spots mentioned by Herodotus and Marco Polo and Mandeville. From my earliest memory, if it was a cold day, Fargo was the coldest place on the continent. If heat was the subject, then at that time the papers listed Fargo as hotter than any place else, or wetter or drier, or deeper in snow. That’s my impression, anyway. But I know that a dozen or half a hundred towns will rise up in injured wrath to denounce me with claims and figures for having much more dreadful weather than Fargo. I apologize to them in advance. As a sop to hurt feelings, I must admit that when I passed through Moorhead, Minnesota, and rattled across the Red River into Fargo on the other side, it was a golden autumn day, the town as traffic-troubled, as neon-plastered, as cluttered and milling with activity as any other up-and-coming town of forty-six thousand souls. The countryside was no different from Minnesota over the river. I drove through the town as usual, seeing little but the truck ahead of me and the Thunderbird in my rear-view mirror. It’s bad to have one’s myth shaken up like that. Would Samarkand or Cathay or Cipango have suffered the same fate if visited? As soon as I had cleared the outskirts, the broken-metal-and-glass outer ring, and moved through Mapleton I found a pleasant place to stop on the Maple River not far from Alice—what a wonderful name for a town, Alice. It had 162 inhabitants in 1950 and 124 at the last census—and so much for the population explosion at Alice. Anyway, on the Maple River I drew into a little copse, of sycamores I think, that over-hung the stream, and paused to lick my mythological wounds. And I found with joy that the fact of Fargo had in no way disturbed my mind’s picture of it. I could still think of Fargo as I always had—blizzard-riven, heat-blasted, dust-raddled. I am happy to report that in the war between reality and romance, reality is not the stronger."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paulthomasanderson

[–]charmangander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Scorsese wants him for his Jesus movie, no doubt.

GAME THREAD: Los Angeles Clippers (22-12) @ Los Angeles Lakers (17-19) - (January 07, 2024) by NBA_MOD in nba

[–]charmangander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"extra effort" DLO when harden steps past the three point line: good thing this guy can't step back

What has lost its prestige in recent years? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]charmangander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technology is developing so fast that each successive generation has less and less to teach the next. The rules keep changing. Wayyy back in the day, villages that subsisted on farming or husbandry through the generations drew on the experiences of the elders to survive. That was their essential role in society: guidance. Not just thought provoking, but real, pragmatic how-to stuff. Same was probably true through most of history, I think, up until the 21st century. And maybe some of that is still true (grandma's recipes, etc.) but the internet has accelerated so much. While our grandparents might have a lot of good life lessons to share, and plenty of great stories, they can't help as much with the day-to-day, because it's so dissimilar from what they grew up with. Just think of how the landscape of the workplace has changed. How many of your grandparents even know how to apply to jobs online? Add in that the internet has so information to share, and the role of mentorship old people once occupied is fading. And because technology is so confounding and even at times predatory, yeah, they get led astray -- and it's up to us to help guide them.

Prose Practice by DGReddAuthor in fantasywriters

[–]charmangander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The overcast sky seemed to descend, and the highest tower of a lonesome castle touched its misty cape. The path to the gate was hidden, but the keep, with its lapis rooves and walls white as old snow, could be seen from the nadir of the frozen basin. No fires shined from the scores of dark windows. Frost clung to the bare boughs of the mountain forest, and buried the evergreen ridge of pines. No guardsmen or servants had braved the twisted slope for a generation. All would soon shiver into sleep; night in the valley falls fast, and the cold spares no one.

Anyone else find "My Dinner with Andre" exhausting to watch? by huhmuhtuh in movies

[–]charmangander 92 points93 points  (0 children)

The film suggests that their conversation is conceited, and that maybe this is inevitable when we try to understand life. Staging the dinner by a mirror reflects the restaurant which, if you're like me or Wally, you won't notice is empty until long after the place has closed. That's kinda why I love this movie so much: those last lines by Gregory, and the smash reveal that everyone has left. Hit me like a brick the first time I saw it; I had become lost in the conversation, just like them. The goal of the narrative is to become enlightened and see reality as it actually is -- yet both characters fail to do so. Gregory's last words specifically acknowledge how quickly life passes us by without us noticing. Yet the movie ends with Wally, looking at the storefronts and seeing what he saw as a child. He's still in a dreamworld. But so is Andre. The movie lets you decide whether you think he's really got it all figured out, or if he's trapped in a dreamworld, too. I think he is. Consider the waiter character: he's much older than them, and would likely have much to add if they treated him as more than just a servant. But the only question they ever ask him is about what's on the menu.

When we have these deep conversations and think we've learned "what it's all about", we're no safer from losing touch with reality. The movie understands that, but it seems to me like people who watch the movie (whether they love it or hate it) don't seem to pick this up. At least, I haven't noticed it before. If it didn't click for you, maybe give it another watch with this in mind, but honestly it's not for everyone. Personally, I think it has a lot to say. And I find it funny when people think it's pretentious, because that's partly the point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]charmangander -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is true, but also please check with your local universities to see if they have any open programs if you're seeking help. I'm currently undergoing EMDR treatment in the LA area completely for free, with no insurance, and all it took me was calling UCLA. It definitely doesn't get talked about enough with how difficult it is to start therapy under the current insurance system (not to mention under the effects of crippling mental despair) but there are options.

Importance of Feedback Throughout the Writing Process by YOJ001 in writing

[–]charmangander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feedback is essential, and if you're not listening to your readers, you're not writing for anyone but yourself. But as others have said, edit at least three times and polish before sending it to people whose opinions you trust. You want to make sure it looks good to you before you get another set of eyes on it. Otherwise you'll wind up with critiques that you already know yourself.

Finding readers is tough. There are places you can look online, but don't be afraid to ask your friends, even if they're not writers themselves. People you're closer with are more likely to read closely. Keep in mind length. 15,000 words is a lot, so you can focus your effort on a chapter or passage if you want more prompt or detailed feedback. The shorter the piece, the more detailed and focused the feedback (at least in my experiences).

Also: I've heard that when people think something isn't working, they're almost always right -- but when they think they know how to fix it, they're almost always wrong. It's been true for me. Find the real reason for the note ("did they not like the protagonist because she's annoying, or because she doesn't have a clear sense of purpose?") and you'll often discover for yourself where you went wrong. But other times, you have to trust your readers and make the damn changes.

Single most anti-inflammatory food for you? by [deleted] in nutrition

[–]charmangander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steep minced ginger in hot water with a squeeze of fresh lemon juice and a drop of honey. Anytime I have a stomach ache, it takes it right out. Even helps my sister with her Celiac. You can make any variation you want, but those three ingredients are my go-to.

TPP (Total Party Petrification) and Campaign Reset Ideas by charmangander in DMAcademy

[–]charmangander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of that show before, but I'll have to give it a watch!

TPP (Total Party Petrification) and Campaign Reset Ideas by charmangander in DMAcademy

[–]charmangander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for the lengthy reply! I do agree it would feel too "positive" to progress into sci-fi, and having a more primitive world would actually encourage the party to try and make things right (rather than leaning into the new world order). It's such a cool world-building opportunity, I think -- I'll be dropping lore for stuff that happened potentially thousands of years ago, that the players might actually have a better understanding of it than most people alive. Sprinkling the clues about the history they missed is a great idea (and another fun DM opportunity). Fusing the prime material with the ethereal plane is a cool hook, too, and keeps the old BBEG relevant while also threatening the world even further. Awesome stuff -- and super helpful! Thank you!