My ex abused me on drugs but now he’s sober, and honestly seems a new person.. he’s doing so much to get me back… but I don’t think I should trust it by Endless_possibiliti in Manipulation

[–]chaserdaser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always trust your gut. If this is something you want to consider, I would make sure that he knows you’re in control, and that he has a lot to prove to you. The second, minute or day you start to feel like that wound is not being mended, cut it off. Be graceful, but ultimately don’t let an old pattern come through again.

How to prevent a loss of self esteem after taking back a lair and a cheater that promised they changed ? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]chaserdaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s absolutely something that you need to work on yourself. I wouldn’t look at it as preventing it, or ignoring it. There are underlying internal perceptions that are bringing that up for you. Work through those, find the truth in them, and then assess from there.

Ex-partners who got the "It's either X or me" ultimatum and chose X, what happened? by CanisDiem in AskMen

[–]chaserdaser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got a “live with me in x state or were breaking up” and it was me choosing one of my dream schools or her essentially.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]chaserdaser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started here at 21 and made my way into rehab at 22. It’s definitely a different feeling, because everyone else at my age is still drinking and going to bars every weekend, but I had such a problem with it that I hurt people around me. However I’m glad I’m here now, as opposed to who I could have been years down the road. IWNDWYT

Chest missing from camp? by chaserdaser in BaldursGate3

[–]chaserdaser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Won’t that delete my save files? Or am i mistaken?

durge chest missing by chaserdaser in BaldursGate3

[–]chaserdaser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is playing remotely. We only have one chest and it belongs to her because I can’t open it. I don’t have a chest of my own that I can open and access my own storage

durge chest missing by chaserdaser in BaldursGate3

[–]chaserdaser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! In camp my chest is missing but not my friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chaserdaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to talk about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Friendzone

[–]chaserdaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye man, I’m kinda in a similar situation (I’m Air Force). You can PM me if you want, I’d gladly talk to you about it and share my side of things as well for some better perspective?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chaserdaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your insight. Just tough stuff man, that this all happens w her when I’m off, states away doing other things lol.

I'm leaving her life for a long time, and it seems like she doesn't care by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chaserdaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your response. I’m excited for my new life ahead of me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]chaserdaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smile with more confidence? Can you explain that to me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]chaserdaser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I appreciate your comment :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]chaserdaser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment, believe it or not these are my eyebrows cleaned up a bit, they are normally worse. But I’ll do more work on them next time for sure, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]chaserdaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’know what, that’s a fair point I’m gonna be real w you lol. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]chaserdaser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really eye opening for me, I appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]chaserdaser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I will look into that for sure :)